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#1250330 01/03/05 10:56 AM
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He says he is serious about a D...what do I do? I don't want to give up, but I feel like I've already lost him. I'm losing it over here.

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#1250333 01/03/05 02:50 PM
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Check out your legal options and secure your financial future.

The WS is talking out of his azz so be prepared for more crap coming you way.

What plan are you in?

L.

#1250334 01/03/05 09:45 PM
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I am trying to do Plan A but I don't think I am doing it very well, or anything for that matter. I am a total wreck. Just don't know where to go for now. The OW lives states away but they talk all the time. Hubby told me she told him to work things out with me b/c I wont give up without a fight. Well duh! this is my family. When does it get better...I hope soon.

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Calm down. Can't do much fixing with you all up in arms. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Now what have you read from here? Surviving an affair? His Needs/Her Needs? Concepts section? Taken the Emotional Needs questionnaire? Got an MC? Do any phone counseling with Steve H @ MB? On meds? Visit your doctor? Get STD tested? Setup your immediate support group? Identified your boundaries? Implemented them?

Looks like you have a lot t/d on your plate. Let's help you get focused so you can kick some WS butt!! ok?

L.


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