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<small>[ January 25, 2005, 06:12 PM: Message edited by: stumblinalong ]</small>

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marriedandlonely..I'm sorry I don't know your story...

Are you posting in this particular part of the forum because you've had infidelity in your marriage--or you know this part of the forum tends to have the most traffic?

Might want to put OT in front of your subject line...just so people don't get too confused.

Do you guys usually POJA? Would it hurt your business to lose this client?

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<small>[ January 25, 2005, 06:12 PM: Message edited by: stumblinalong ]</small>

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Smile...okie doke..didn't know your story was just confused.

The way I see it PERSONALLY..is that business and friendship do not mix. I can understand your husband's POV, but don't necessarily agree with it.

but I think your real concern lies in the last couple of sentences and the way your husband handled this with you. If you're counseling with SH, maybe it's time to bring the POJA into things? Seems like a perfect opportunity and it would fit this situation perfectly.

Must be hard to hear from your h how proud he is of you and how well you've handled this..but then him turn around and "change the rules" when it suited him. Sorry I can't offer more constructive advice.

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