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hubby and i have been together almost 15 years married almost 10. both from other marriages me 5yrs him 9 1/2 he is a flirt. recently he started talking to old high school girl friend and then got cold to me so i asked why, he says havnt been in love since summer and felt trouble with marriage last four years. says he dont know if he wants to be married or if he wants to work it out. but he loves me and allways wants to be friends. says dont call him (hes a truck driver) so i asked questions for three calls and he just got madder. then tonight i just decided to kill him with kindness, you know asked about day and so on, he says i cant talk now i said i didnt call to talk i just called to say i love you and he said i love you too dear. he hasnt said it like that in a week so does he have the 9 1/2 year itch or what
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. You have found the right place. Start in Plan A. You can read all about it on the link in my sig line.
Your husband is acting like they all do. Try not to take it personally. I know it is hard at first, but it does get much better.
There are plans here and strategies that will help you. Stick with us, and we will help you.
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