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#1252261 01/08/05 10:13 AM
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Are "cack" and "tosser" allowed on MB Bob?

#1252262 01/08/05 10:29 AM
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TT, a secret, we can usually get away with English colloquialisms on this US-based board. Besides, they're not bad and Tree's WH is a tosser and he does talk cack. I feel so childish writing that ! LOL !!

Have a great day TT <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

#1252263 01/08/05 10:53 AM
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Maddyk...
Yes, It does still hurt but the things he says are just so crazy that it is hilarious!

When they have the wedding at DW in Cinderella's castle...I'll invite all of you! LOL!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Bob, so true, so true!!!!

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Hi Tree! Just had to check in this morning to see if your WH had any more spiritual insights to share with us on MB. Of course unbeknowst(sp?) to him. What would he think of the hours of enjoyment he is providing all of us?

WTF were the bible and Adam and Eve questions about? And my personal favorite, that he and OW are agnostics, but they believe in God. Excuse me, I might be wrong here, but I always thought an agnostic wasn't sure if there was a God. Gee, he and OW must have hours of such very deep conversations with one another.

Tree honey, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing these conversations with your H. You know how there is a book called "Conversations with God"? Well maybe you could one day write a book called "Conversations with WH". I think there might be some money there for you. Anyway, today is the one year anniversary of d-month. You have definitely cheared me up. CV

#1252265 01/08/05 11:35 AM
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Glad I was able to cheer you up on this gloomy day.
I will continue to share my WH crazy emails. It does give me a laugh to hear all of the input on them. He truly says the craziest things I've ever heard!
I think we should make him the King of the Aliens!!!! Hmmmmm....what could we call him? King what?????????

#1252266 01/08/05 11:38 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ark^^:

something like...

"A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME...
IS STILL A ROSE...."

</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A dissolution by any other name, is still a painful divorce to a child losing his family.

Adultery by any other name, is still a hand-grenade thrown into the family.

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#1252267 01/08/05 11:42 AM
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So true PEP!
When I talked to him yesterday he said that again......he refuses to say Divorce....he said we aren't really getting divorced...we're changing our relationship! Ha Ha...yea...we're getting DIVORCED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can we all say CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#1252268 01/08/05 11:43 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And BTW if we have to be PC with our WS's then here ya go:

They are not adulterers they are the 'fidelity challenged'

The WS's aren't leaving you for an OP they're "Diversifying"

You can't call them cake eaters when they want you and their OP they are "Multi-tasking"

They aren't being selfish they are "benefits analysts"
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That is funny. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

#1252269 01/08/05 11:52 AM
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What does he mean 'do you believe in Adam and Eve'???? It's not a story like the tooth fairy.

And I thought he was agnostic now....so if he doesn't believe in God then why does it matter what the bible says? He is really just losing it. I still say he's about to come unglued, he's writing all these things to you and talking to you about stuff because he values your opinion.....he doesn't realize how stupid he sounds. He needs your approval (Not that he'll ever get it), I think that his relationship with the OW is probably just about to blow up.

-Caren

#1252270 01/08/05 11:59 AM
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Caren,
I truly don't know why he asked me about Adam and Eve. He apparently thinks it's impossible that God created them. Who knows...maybe he thinks they are aliens.

He did tell me that him and OW got into an argument over me the other day. Hmmmmmmm.....I though he was so happy and at peace???? She lied to him about what she said to me on the phone. I flat out told him word for word what she said....I then told him to go back to her and discuss it and if she has a problem with me....she knows my number!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm OVER IT!!!!!
These people need to get beamed up soon. LOL!!!!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TreeReich:
<strong> So true PEP!
When I talked to him yesterday he said that again......he refuses to say Divorce....he said we aren't really getting divorced...we're changing our relationship! Ha Ha...yea...we're getting DIVORCED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can we all say CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Next time he refuses to say "divorced" try talking opposites with him.... assuming you can do this with a smile and NOT with sarcasm. Keep it funny. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> This is not done to teach or preach to him (will do NO good right now) This is done to keep yourself amused!!!!

He says: "We are changing our relationship. Let's not say it is a divorce."

YOU say: "OKAY! Let's call our new relationship *engaged to be divorced*." <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Reverse babble the most incredible nonsense you can ... JUST FOR FUN <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Pep....I love that! I will definitely use that one!

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LMAO Pep!!! That's so funny!!!!! LOLOLOLOLOL

-Caren

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OMG Tree you could seriously have a lot of fun with him and the reverse babble!! LMAO I'm tickled just thinking about it!!!!

So, what's up with that whole Adam and Eve story in the bible?? Doesn't that sound bogus to you?? I mean really...... LMAO

So what...do him and the OW just sit around and talk about this stuff and then just agree?

"Hey, what do you think about God?"

"Ummm I believe in him, and yet not really"

"Oh my gosh! Me Too...we are so totally agnostic"

-Caren

#1252275 01/08/05 12:25 PM
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Caren...
LOL!!!!!! I guess they are on a "higher spiritual" level than most of us. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

WH actually told me yesterday that the court can't make him pay back child support. HA!!!!! He's in for a shocker! He said he was going to go talk to my lawyer. LOL! He is definitely coming unglued!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#1252276 01/08/05 12:35 PM
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LOL.....Got another one!!!!!

This email is refering to me telling him exactly what the OW said to me about me not being able to give WH a daughter and other cruel things she said to me. Should I respond and if so I need some good stuff here.....help!!!

WH writes......

"if you say thats what she did indeed say word for word then thats between you and her to iron out. Unless you can prove to me word for word what she said and you heard I can do nothing to help. When you are in such anger and hurt, words and statements are certainly subject to being misconstrue. If you truley and honestly in your heart beleive that I would promote and support such cruel thoughts when you are already down knowing that such harsh words would cause even deeper wounds then you really need to rethink about the anger and hatred you are harbouring. Your mind at this point in the state that it is in, only sees, hears and perceives what you want to see, hear and perceive. Really try to ponder that thought. Until this issues like these are resolved we cant move forward in a positive direction. You know very well that I am a very kind person in nature and always have been. My passive, weak act and the dishonest life that accompanied it is far from being someone who would even think about continuing to kick someone who is already hurt. You need to at least start making efforts to seperate what had happened between you and I and anything that occured in its aftermath. I am not in anyone elses mind but my own. I dont control anyone elses mind and actions. It hurts me to even think that you would truely beleive that I would even think to begin to promote and support that. Magali is a mature person, however if indeed those words that you are bringing forward were said, then I would question without a doubt her integrity as a human being. You can be angry and hateful to her all you want for in any other reason, but if you question and accuse her disregard to your state of being at that time then you need to address that with her. You know her address so write her. I am not involved with this accusation. If indeed I detected that what you say was said, I would have immediately addressed this with her. I told you over and over that I protected you and in fact still do. I'm sorry that it didnt work out with you and me. But if you cant learn to seperate your hatred and rational thinking then I need to be more wise and make sure that I am 100% protected in every aspect and that includes camerons best interest which is the most important of concern of all. I will make a copy of your accusations and present it to her. Im sure she will make a formal response."

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OMG, can I please smack him? Please....I just want to hurt him a little bit.

Is he divorcing you or running for political office? He doesn't even make any damn sense, I came away from reading the letter more confused than before I started.

How exactly would you have PROOF of a fricken conversation? Sheesh.

I would write back:

Dear WH:

You are correct in your assumption that I do not have any proof of what was said to me, and we are in America so OW is innocent until proven guilty.

You are right, you are a kind and gentle person, I apologize if my comments made you think that I believed otherwise.

You are so wrong about the hatred thing though. I don't hate either of you. You are two of my favorite people in the entire world and wish you nothing but sunshine and flowers.

I was sitting here thinking about the Adam and Eve thing you brought up, and I think that you may be on to something there.....I got out the bible and read it, and you're right, I don't see how anyone thinks that's a plausible story. I hadn't ever thought about it that way before, but everything is so clear to me now.

In closing, please let me say that my only wish is for your happiness.

-Tree

That ought to confuse the crap out of him LMFAO

-Caren

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ooo ooo ooo, throw something in there about another Bible story you don't believe like.....'And what's up with the Noah's Ark story, I'm so sure, and Ark? I mean really! And 2 of EVERY animal....that seems a little far fetched to me."

LMAO

Caren

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I'm so glad I'm not the only one that can't make sense out of this stupid email.
I love your responses....jotting them down...

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wow..triple post

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