Last I heard, OW moved back home to her BH and DD. And WH was living . . . elsewhere.

Then on your other thread you indicated that WH and OW are living together again? And want to live in YOUR house, without you in it???

What is going on??? Sounds like someone needs to *ring* your WH's bell (i.e. smack him upside the head) so that perhaps he can find all the marbles he's lost!

Please tell me I have misinterpreted this stuff, and that OW is home caring for her DD that she deserted, and that your WH is living off by himself somewhere and leaving you alone to enjoy the wonderful new life you have created for yourself. OK, tell me that.

Spidey

Spidey -

Well their little game goes on and on. They were living together for sure for over a year. But they both lied about it. Then they got kicked out - I don't know why, but probably partying too much. Next they either rented or bought a place together.

I never get the truth about anything and neither does her husband. But my WH did tell me that they broke up. OW moved back with her husband and daughter, but spent Christmas and New Years with my WH.

What I think is going on is that my WH's attorney advised him that living with the OW was going to hurt him in the property settlement. They have gone through over $100,000. together.

The only thing left is the place I am living, and 3 Harleys. WH wants it all.

I don't talk to him or pay too much attention to all the drama. I've moved on and find it rather boring and distasteful.

How are you doing?

Oooops.

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Wow. If only they understood how much energy they *waste* by creating that much drama in their lives! Geez. No wonder they are wrecks.

I am glad you are not paying too much attention, BUT, are you protected? Can WH take your place, your home? I am very worried that you might somehow slip through the cracks of the system and lose everything you have worked so hard to create for yourself.

When I was down in Anehiem (sp?) last year, it is such a beautiful community. I think you are blessed to live there. Take care of you, OK?

I am doing fatastic. After over a year, I am finally almost done recreating my bedroom, the one desecrated by FWH and FBF/OW. Get this ~ it is ORANGE and yellow, and it makes me smile when I go in there. It is bright, cheerful, and it is all coming together according to my PLAN! I have new bed treatments (comforter, duvet, pillow, etc.), so it is sooo comfy to lay in. Now my paining is almost done. Next is a big mirror for above my dresser (I have my eye on a couple), new light fixture, a corner shelf.

Then on to my bathroom. Then the only room I will have not painted in my whole house is my computer room, where I am right now. I LOVE color.

H and I are doing well. Santa bought us a night at a place called the Anniversary Inn. All the rooms have themes, and they are very cool. H bought us one in April, right after he came home, and it was incredible (the Egyptian room). This time we had the Sleeping Beauty room (because I am his princess <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ). It was fun.

Other than that, I am working and cooking and cleaning and doing the Mom thing. Busy busy. And going to Weight Watchers to lose this 18 pounds that crept back up on my a$$! Good grief.

Anyway, thanks so much for the update. My thoughts and prayers are always with you. You were my very first MB friend, and I think of you often. You are a very giving, kind, FUNNY, soul, and I wish only the very best for you in this life.

Spidey

Thanks Spidey - don't worry bout me. I'm protecting myself. Also I kept all his letters and the agreements saying I could keep this place. I'm not worried.

Glad you are doing well. Decorating is such fun!