Mahal Kita JW,

Are you pinay?

Hi Rescue Me,

Yes I am.

MKJW,

Me too pure balut, Anyway my WW told me the same thing I am a Big Mistake, But anyway try to write everything he doesn't like, and what he really wants and avoid crossing what ever makes him mad. Usually H loves HUGs and Kisses all the time.

Plan A, Plan A, Plan A a good one...

Rescue Me,

Balut...haha, they had that on Fear Factor this past week. They blended it and made it into a drink. But I've never had any... not sure I'd try it. I was born and raised in the states.

Thanks for the input... too bad my H doesn't like the hugs and kisses (at least not from me, right now). I asked last night for hug... all he said was "uh huh" and went to bed. But I'll keep working at Plan A. One of his top EN is Conversation about his interests. Too bad its hard to do that when you're mad and don't want to show it. But I'm trying. We've only had 1 LB moment in the last 2 months but that's because I couldn't take it anymore. I had to say something back to him about his complaining.

So should I bring up the phone calls with the OW?

sorry

<small>[ January 13, 2005, 09:43 AM: Message edited by: Rescue Me ]</small>

No, right now dont bring up anything about the OW just work on Plan A. Dont even ask about your marriage. Right now words cannot do anything, show some action and even though he is acting mad inside him he still want to feel your hug and kisses. Trust me, you sweetness can never be replace by OW. I still miss my wife until now it's been 6th months that we are separated. Married 9th years Together 11th years 1 daughter 9 years old. I am pinoy and wife is pinay raise here in united states.

I called my husband's girlfriend at their apt. 6+ times since he left me and moved in with her.

IT DID NO GOOD. I THINK IT ACTUALLY PUSHED THEM CLOSER TOGETHER.

Even though I was always nice to her He says that they have all of my calls saved and will file a harassment suit against me.

At first I called and said it would be to her advantage to call me for a 5 min conversation.

NO REPLY

Then about a month after he moved in with her he brought me lingerie.
I called her and told her and invited her to come right over and see the box for proof.

He was in my garage at the time and she called him on his cell right away and he went running to her.
What an idiot she is! I invited her over for proof.
My husband was having his cake and eating it too up until a few weeks ago when he was busted because I had concrete evidence that they weren't just roommates.
I had called her to tell her he was sleeping with both of us and felt she deserved to know.

Again, no return call.

So see, it does no good. I say don't put yourself in my situation. DON'T CALL ANYMORE.