I do not even know where to start. This passed weekend I was with WH and he showed me the last text messages sent to him by OW with her fertile days for this month and next and to let her know if he was interested to stop the pills.

I am not even sure how do I feel about that at this point. I just told him "there you go" as in "get into deeper S**t if thats what you want, you've been warned by her".

OW also told him that she will make my life miserable. Also, that WH could not be giving me Xtra money once we divorced, only what the court allowed. OW got upset because WH told her that whatever I needed he was helping me with if he could. Of course, this comes from the biggest liar I have known so I am not sure how much "help" he will give to trust him with.

Love,

I take it the OW is not married. Is there anyone else you cna expose this affair to?

Love,

Why are you lettin him show you this cr*p? Distance yourself from their craziness and just focus on you and your little one. Some OW are just nuts. Why would you want a baby with a man that treats his W like that? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I take it the OW is not married. Is there anyone else you cna expose this affair to? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">OW was divorcing when she started going out with my WH. Work, family and friends all know. It has been exposed.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Some OW are just nuts. Why would you want a baby with a man that treats his W like that?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Because " it is not going to happen to her" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> It is like when she emails me that my marriage will only go downhill from here on. To take that from her previous experience that things just get worse and harder. That WH is a liar and she does not sees him changing. But at the same time she can not wait for me to get out of the way to try to fill in my shoes. Wanting my WH boxes, car and my stepson that still in my house. Oh Well!

I know they are still in contact and I am in contact w/ my lawyer <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> but I have not said anything to them yet. I am taking my time.

We will see what happens!

Dear Love,

OW is fertile with what? Horse manure? Seems like it.

Let it slip that the OW has crabs mutlipling. LOL!!

OW doesn't just want the WS, she wants you and everything you have. Let your H know that.

Most OWs want more than the WS. The WS are often boring. Once the conquest is over.....most OWs go the next step....the BS, $$ and family.

Now is your chance to put up a block for that OW and get her to LB her azz off.

L.

Love - I have been wanting to talk with you. My H is also a OTR driver. I am worried sick about his being out there for so long.
He has had the last two days off, but he is in another state. With his cell phone shut off !! It is killing me.
Things at home were not good before he left to take this new job. He really wanted to do this all of a sudden. I keep thinking he probably had a gf before leaving, if not, he has plenty of opportunities to find one out there. (I don't know how much this means, but he is very attractive)
Your situation is exactly what I am trying desperatly to avoid. But his having all this unaccountable free time, with phone now shut off - it is killing me.
Did your H find his OW on the road ? What advice do you have for me ? I still have not gotten the courage to search phone records.
He is supposed to be coming home later in the month. He has not been home since Thanksgiving !!
Thanks for replies. As being so new to this, I am really not much help to you, but will gladly listen.
Hope this is not considered high jacking, sorry if it is.

Car