Do you know how hard it is to not just post it all somewhere on the internet???

I mean I know EVERYTHING....address, phone numbers, social security number....all of it.....it's everything I can do not to just put it all out there and let the net freaks have at her.

*sigh* Sorry....just one of my psychotic episodes.

-Caren

GOOD WORK!

Calm down and guard it somewhere for safekeeping if you ever need it.

I have that info. too and it gives me such a good feeling even now.

This is a war and you are stockpiling your ammunition.

I don't post much...mostly read to keep sanity. But this caught my eye. I also carried the info around in my wallet for over a year. It was killing me! Everytime my bad memories were starting to go away...WHAM I saw the info and back came all the bad memories.

It wasn't until after I had gotten rid of all the info or "ammunition" I had against my WW that I was able to really put the effort into my marriage.

IMHO I think you should get rid of it...so you won't be tempted daily to use it and put the emphisis into your marriage.

It really helped me out.

Well at this juncture, I'm plan A-ing, separated....I'm getting along with my WH okay because, well I'm nice to him even when he's an @sshole.

As I said in another post, I got the voice activated recorder thing, and I put it on my phone line, to test it out, well I had it on when WH called me last night. He was telling me how everyone says he's getting so skinny. I said, "well you are" He said "Women say that to me all the time, they say I look so good" I said "Oh, why does it have to be women?? You couldn't have left it at people?"(I laughed when I said it, although I was P.O.ed) He said "Well...GUYS don't tell me I look good" I said "Well you do look good" AHHHHH!!! It's so hard to be nice when he's so blatantly trying to get to me.

Oh speak of the devil, he just called....because yes he needs to come over and take a shower. I answered the phone "Good morning sunshine!" He said "Yeah...." I said "Did you just wake up?" He said "Yeah" Then we talked about how he'd hurt his shoulder messing around with a kid at work...I said "How's your shoulder?" He said "I think I bruised it" I said "Well you're not a spring chicken anymore" (Laughing) Then I said "But you still look good.." He said "Yeah, I have people tell me that all the time" I said "So I hear".

Kill me....just kill me.

-Caren

I understand your viewpoint, JUST DON'T KNOW.

However,Caren is just in the early stages of finding out about her WH's A. He has not committed to the M yet. She's still in the fignt!

Hi Caren,

I too found out everything about the homewrecker many moons ago now.I kept it in a "folder" with all the other evidence I was stock piling against my WH.I never ended up using most of it although I did call the homewreckers cell phone to tell her what I thought about her(sheepish grin here). <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I still fantasize about driving up to Canada and posting flyers with her name and address on it all over the city.You know,stuff like: "A #1 Homewrecker,your husband is MY husband.Call xxx-xxxx if you want to cheat on your spouse".Or a tee-shirt with the same and "for a good time call....".lol

I would say just keep the info in your "back pocket" should you need it one day.You may never need it but just to be sure.

O