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I'm flying out tomorrow to be with my family for the weekend....CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!! We're all going on a mini vacation. I need one so bad. I need to be away from this crazy situation. Everybody send some good vibes my way... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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<small>[ January 13, 2005, 04:29 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TreeReich: <strong> I'm flying out tomorrow to be with my family for the weekend....CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!! We're all going on a mini vacation. I need one so bad. I need to be away from this crazy situation. Everybody send some good vibes my way... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">~{~{~{~{{~{~ R those good vibes? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Have a fun weekend! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> L.
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Thanks Orchid!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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V <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> B <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> E <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> S <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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I like that fishracer!!
I don't know why all of a sudden I'm upset. I've been crying and can't seem to focus on getting packed for my trip. What is wrong with me????
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I like that fishracer!!
I don't know why all of a sudden I'm upset. I've been crying and can't seem to focus on getting packed for my trip. What is wrong with me????
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Hey TR: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I don't know why all of a sudden I'm upset. I've been crying and can't seem to focus on getting packed for my trip. What is wrong with me???? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sorry for your blues! FYI: It's normal and I (we) would be concerned if you weren't like this. You were committed for life and your WH wasn't. Your vows and oath to H & God was literal to you - forever - untouchable! It's just tough. 15 years produces a lot of memories. "A" situations are the pits because we (BS's) are clear-minded about the memories and are not allowing some knucklehead (OP) to fill our heads with goop! The good news is we will deal with this properly now and be the better for it. WS's will also have to deal with this at some point in their lives and it will be the most empty, lonely feeling in the world. (Even if OP is around!) Your faith to do the right thing is strong. There will be good days, great days and a few tough days for a while - but you'll come out a better person. And your DS will respect you for all of his life. How cool is that? Have a great time with your family. When you get the blues; let em flow. You're getting stronger each time you cry. • Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair but manifestations of strength and resolution. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> FR
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Thank you! I do know that I am getting stronger. I just hate these sad moments. You are so right....I was in this for life. It hurts to know that my WH wasn't! He will lose in the end. He always told me that in the end he would want to be with me because I'm a good wife and mother. Well, I guess now he won't have me in the end. He chose OW! I doubt he will be happy with her long term.
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