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Struggling-M is a WS (I think FWS?) who is very new in this and is very unsure of what she wants. Her husband asked her to come here and she has done so.
Could you please share with her your experiences and what has helped you decide to try and rebuild your marriage?
Thanks!
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Aislinn,
Please read the post called desperation. My wife has read your posts and hopefully responded. I'm very sorry. I shouldn't have started the whole thing. It was wrong. You have all been so helpful to me that I wanted to help her. I know she has read your posts, but under her current attitude, I don't know if it will do anything for her.
To all those who read this, I apologize to you too. I screwed up.
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One more thing. If you want to really tell me off you can do wesellison@yahoo.com
Again I'm sorry
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Soulmates, I am not going to tell you off...
BUT...I do think you need to back off a little.
If she really didn't want to post, she wouldn't have, plain and simple. Maybe she really does want to see what others have gone through..who has been able to recover and who hasn't. Maybe she seeks reassurance that changes can be permanent.
Now that she has done this for you..posted here, back off.
And....get "desperate" out of your vocabulary. She doesn't need a desperate spouse, she needs one who is strong and who will be there for her when she needs it.
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