I would appreciate positive suggestions to this...looking for more positive energy

Geeze, maybe we could read some auras or plot our karma patterns. Where I use to live in California, people talking about energy and all was the norm. Didn't make them normal but it was the norm.

I don't think the energy is bad or low or whatever on this board. I think it's right for where the people here are at. Of course, the stories are the same. All cheaters act pretty much the same. Must be hardwired in. This forum is giving me the stuff I need. I hope that in 4 years, I'm able to move past it.

Instead of blaming the board, these folks should just realize that they are ready to move on. I don't know their story but I'll assume they went through the whole A, Plan A, Plan B, False Recovery, Recovery thing. If their marriage is passed through all this and is secure, they should find a new place. Like totally dude.

????? What's the deal with all the energy stuff? Geeeeezzzz...this is MB not the Zen healer. If it was...my WH would be here. LOL!!!!

<small>[ January 13, 2005, 06:05 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>

Kasey,

I just now realized that Kayla is your wife. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Didn't make the connection before.

I just started reading your post, the first was not too long ago on an SF thread over on EN's. Usually I enjoy what you say. I can relate and sometimes I can not relate, but I always enjoy.

Why don't you take a break, go find some higher, happier energies place for awhile and then bring it all back here. Renewed, refreshed and energized! (no pun intended)

No suggestions on where to go, because this is the only forum I have ever been to.

But I fully understand what you are saying, and wish you well in your search. And it will serve us ALL well if you bring some of that back here after. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Listen to your wife.

Oh I wanted to add I have been to the website that spacecase and 2long are involved in. And it makes me happy to read there. And have read quite bit of Penny's site but have never posted to either.

Best to you Kasey, in what ever you decide.

"It must be jelly, 'cause jam don't shake like that!"

That kind of vibrational energy? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I don't know if this would help you guys or not, but Spacecase started a website devoted 2 all kinds of topics like unconditional love, spiri2ality, forgiveness, and others, at www.iloveulove.com . Scroll down the left to "resources" and maybe you'll find some of the things you're interested in (there's even a link 2 MB!). I'm Qfwfq over there. We even have a forum, though it's nowhere near as big as this one (or SYMC, for that matter).

Hope this helps. (and hey, weaver, how come you've never come over? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

-ol' 2long (aka Qfwfq)

weaver:

We posted at the same time! I sit corrected!!

-ol' 2long

Thank you, because I do read there quite a bit. But heck is that forum slow or what? I talk to myself enough here (and at home), thank you very much!

Sadly (or maybe 42nately), Spacecase has gotten really busy with a new job and a new relationship.

We have a private forum there as well, with instructions about how get access on the public forum under 'Forum announcements'.

Sometimes I think our low traffic is because most of the time we're using the private forums, except to answer newbie questions, and many of those don't stay long (I've referred a few here and to SYMC, depending on the question).

-ol' 2long

I might check out that private forum then 2long, because I really like that site. It is very uplifting.

Cool! We'd love 2 have you!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I've come to rather enjoy wasting a certain amount of time hanging out here.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Kasey,

Well! If the boards have become such a waste of your time then it's obvious that the boards are no longer serving their intended purpose, which is marriage building.

Perhaps it's time that you direct your attention down some other avenues which might be more helpful to you in your marriage building efforts.

Certainly if your marriage is still suffering you really have very little time to waste.

From your sig line: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> It's simple I want time to enjoy life and to live a life worth my time. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Words to live by. Yet you are wasting it here? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Of course we could all bump up the energy level of our posts to help you out some....what say you all? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

<small>[ January 13, 2005, 08:02 PM: Message edited by: ba109 ]</small>

^bump^

time's a wastin'