I posted this in Emotional Needs too, but thought I would post it here as well.
About a month or so ago, my fiance and I split up. Things just weren't going all that well, and to be honest, he wasn't meeting the needs I considered most important. I had talked to him about this before, and even though he said that things would change, they never did. I was feeling very lonely in the relationship, and didn't feel like it was going anywhere, so I broke it off with him. I started talking to someone new about a week later. This guy was really sweet and caring, and we seemed to have a lot in common. Well after talking to this guy for a couple of days, my fiance told me that he felt like the reason I split up with him was because he thought I met someone else. I told him that I didn't split up with him for that, but now I had met someone else. I explained to him how very important it is for my needs to be met and that I didn't think he either wanted to meet them or wasn't capable. I told him that I was very distraught over my dream of us being together forever not coming true, because all I really ever wanted was to be with him and him meet my emotional needs. Well me telling him that I didn't think he could meet my needs sparked a fire under his butt. He came over and we talked about everything and I told him everything that I thought I would never tell him. I also broke all forms of communication with the new guy I had been talking to so we could give "us" another shot. Well last night, he flat out accused me of still talking to this other guy. He says that he thinks that because there have been a lot of wrong number calls to my house, that it is the OM calling me. I haven't talked to him since I broke things off with him. I told him that I promised him a month ago that I was breaking things off and that I wanted more than anything for us to work. He doesn't believe me and I don't know how to prove it to him that I haven't done a thing to jeopardize us. HELP!!!!!
HurtingInTX
