ok well my mother-in-laws uncle dies earlier this week ....he was such a sweet man...my mother-in-law asked me to go to the funeral to support the family....well when WH found out I was told I could not go because his OW would be there and she had more right to be there than I did. Well I didn't go to the wake but a few of my friends told me....you were invited and they are still family...go he can't bully you around....so I went to the burial....OW was not there.....I hugged my poor aunt...she is such a good woman and I know it's rough on her....i stood with my SIL....after the burial services my MIl comes up to my with WH in tow just like a little puppy.....she starts talking to me....and I just ignored he fact WH was standing right there....she eventually said heres WH...I looked at him....(luckly I had sunglasses on he couldn't see me glaring at him)....I just nodded at him and turned back to my MIL and said I have to go mom I'll talk to you later...hugged her and left he went to follow me....but I think his mom stopped him....so how did I do?

10/10.

Calm, respectful, supportive of your self respect with grace and dignity.

Can't see what you could have done better.

Don't harp on it now. It sover. Your H saw your dignity and it will stay with him.