My story is this --

I found out last year that my H had an EA/ONS with a long-time nanny of my son that happened 6-7 years ago. I found out because she finally fessed up after all these years, and her husband called my H, enraged and threatening. My H, in a panic, called me while I was out of town, because he thought the Ow's H was going to come over, what should he do? I was calm, although very angry because I KNEW something wasn't right in my home and wanted to fire the nanny, which he wouldn't let me do because "we needed her."

He says he has been faithful in our marriage, although admits kissing at least two other women before our marriage. He admitted these things to me after D-day. I told him he better tell me everything now. We met after our divorces were already underway, and we thought we'd found someone "who understands the heartbreak."

He is my second husband, I am his fourth. Red flag, anyone? Anyway, he says that's the only thing outside of the kissing he admitted to before we married.

We both travel, and he is suspicious and jealous of me. I have had sex outside our marriage. OK, well, I was putting laundry away today, and found in the bottom of a clean sock, two condom wrappers and a paritally open condom. What's this about? He used to keep condoms in his dop kit until I told him it made me uncomfortable that he was traveling with condoms. He said it was so he had some when we were traveling together.

I haven't asked him. I'm not sure I care about the answer or that I'd ever get an honest answer. Suggestions?

Why would these be in his sock? Should I ask or should I just let it go and keep my anentene up.

I thought he was honest with me, but I now I feel like no matter long we go, I'll never really bet to trust him, even if there's a reasonable answer to this one.

Help!
Shellybird

P.S. I mean I have NOT had sex outside of my marriage. Sorry.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by shellybird:
<strong> .... well, I was putting laundry away today, and found in the bottom of a clean sock, two condom wrappers and a paritally open condom. What's this about? .....

Why would these be in his sock? Should I ask or should I just let it go and keep my anentene up.

I thought he was honest with me, but I now I feel like no matter long we go, I'll never really bet to trust him, even if there's a reasonable answer to this one.

Help!
Shellybird </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Shelly,

U s/b unease and now so should he. I would recommend you approach this with an off the cuff approach.....

BS: Hey, have you ever heard of people getting turned on by doing things with their feet?

Ws: Doing what?

BS: sex

WS: What? (watch his reaction)

BS: Sounds weird, but some people put condoms on their toes and get some sort of sick kick out of it. Ever heard of that?

WS: No. That sounds weird.

BS: Sounds gross to me. YUCK!!

BS: BTW, I found these in your socks. Is this a new fetish of yours?

WS: (looks stunned - priceless)

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.

Made me laugh. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Good. Now let us know if you can act this part out and you'll be in the running for an MB oscar. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.

ROFLMAO!!!

Oh I needed this right now!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Orchid you are truly crazy!!! LOL

Shelley.....what does your intellegance tell you about the condoms in the socks? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> If it looks, talks, smells like a RAT....it usually is.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Blessings,
Atruheart

Oh Orchid you cracked me up !!!! Thanks <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Oh golly! I need that this morning. Thanks for a laugh Orchid!

Shelly.... Let us know how things go...
Danielle