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Anyone out there please help me, I keep thinking about my wife and I dont know what to do. I cannot sleep no matter what I try and I am going crazy,
Orchid, Redhat, or who ever please help....
I am tired of feeling this way, how can I control this situation.
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Rescue, I'm here. You have RH's phone#? He is a night owl that RH. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Ok, what do you need? L.
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how can I get through this feeling that I cannot sleep. I am going crazy I am thinking about going to OM house and do something stupid...
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Don't do something stupid. Do your have RH's phone#?
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I have his #. Not sure if he is home or on the road. Think he went to his daughters skating competition this weekend.
If you need to talk, let me know. I have yahoo messenger or the phone.
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RH is online earlier I think he went to bed already. I am on yahoo messenger Orchid my screen name is heartiswounded4ever. I dont know what to do... For some reason I am going crazy or I feel like I am going nuts..
<small>[ January 17, 2005, 04:19 AM: Message edited by: Rescue Me ]</small>
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My yahoomsgr: l_m826
Give me a minute more to get logged in.
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Rescue,
I'm sorry that you are in such in intense pain. I'm right there with you but because I'm a morning person, I'm feeling semi-okay at the moment. The one thing I've learned over the last month of agony (D-Day for me was 12/18/04) and most recently in the last several days is that it is imperative you stop trying to control what other people do. You can only control how you feel and what you do. Try to focus on other things in your life that are important to you. I'm sure I won't stop trying to completely affect my WH's actions but if I can stop it the majority of the time, I'll consider it a victory. Every little victory in life counts, right? And, those victories don't have to all be about your WS, right?
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Rescue, Vsn3 gave some good advice. Just posting to let all know that Graycloud and I had a nice chat with you and you will be back to post later today.... major part of the crisis has past and getting a plan in place to help you move forwad. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> L.
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Rescue-
I have been there with the not sleeping thing...it's HORRIBLE. Can you get the doc to prescribe you something to sleep? If not try some benedryl. You have to get some sleep, everything is magnified times a thousand if you're not sleeping, I found this out the hard way.
Be safe,
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Rescue Me:
I am tired of feeling this way, how can I control this situation. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">you can't.
stop trying to control the situation.
<small>[ January 17, 2005, 09:40 AM: Message edited by: Kasey1 ]</small>
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Good Morning Kasey1, Orchid, Graycloud,
Thank you so much for talking to me and getting me through the crazy feeling. I was so tired fell as sleep around 5:30am and woke up 7:00am still in the same stage but I don't feel like I want to go to OM house. Maybe I should call him and find out exactly he is trying to do, breaking up my family. I hope, I can get in touch with him. Anyway thanks for all the support, thank you, I will keep you guys inform after talking to OM and what his issue.
Be right back
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Rescue,
I gave you a lot of homework last night. Now begin to work on them today. Go get those books and then call MB....if they are open and make an appointment. Take the EN Ques as suggested.
If you still have those feelings, ask a reliable and stable person to be with you. If you absolutely can't pass those feelings of the need to comfront OM AFTER you have done the above, then post it again and I will give you my next suggestion. It is a radical one but it is also critical you do what we discussed first. ok?
DON'T HAVE A CONFRONTATION WITH OM.......at this time.
take care,
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