I asked WH to leave on Saturday (plan A, Dday 11/04/04), we e-mailed half the night. Saw him briefly on Sunday, talked a little. Today, all day, no contact. We had a silent encouter tonight when he showed up to get clothes for tomorrow(staying at sister's house..she will not allow OW over, she wants to kill her!). Then tonight he e-mails me to ask if he can stop by, of course I complied. He gives me a new cell phone!! His has been broken for months, I think his office is giving crap over minutes on his office cell!! While he's here (10 minutes tops), he's acting rushed, of course his cell starts ringing (rules of plan A, when he is here then the cell is either off or unanswered), he doesn't answer. I left the room for 1 minute and he was gone. Apparently, it was a buy one get one free deal. He didn't even say goodbye.
Why is it that we're putting ourselves through this again?
We get to stay home with all the emotional stress and trauma. They're out there living the good life. We have to make sure that the household is in order. They're renting hotel rooms. We make sure the children are as well as possible. They think of their kids occasionally, when it fits their schedule. We live on planet Earth. I don't even know what solar system they came from. We breath clean, real air. They exhale fog.
It certainly is a lot of work and resposibility to be committed to your spouse and family.
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