I really like the direct way you help people. I need direct help.

I've been writing with Stillwed over at In Recovery and I have a "nice little post" about my situation with H.

I am trying to change but I need help and direction. I don't know if the advice you have to that other woman about her sexless marriage applies to me or not - but I would love your opinion. I want so much to be supportive and helpful that I think I can enable. I think this but I am not sure on account of my [censored] being on backwards.

My thread topic is "Stillwed - how to confront fears?"

Thanks.