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OM is trying to contact me
#1263700 01/18/05 12:36 PM
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I had the affairs and I have not had contact with either one. Now all of sudden one of them send me a text message via email that says HEY - that's it.. I deleted it but now do I tell husband? I dont want him to worry.. what to do? Would he want to know?

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#1263701 01/18/05 12:48 PM
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Tell him and tell him now. It's the only way he can learn he can trust you.
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#1263702 01/18/05 08:35 PM
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Got to agree. Tell him ASAP.

As a BH, I know I that I see attempts to "protect me" as insulting. Like my SO doesn't have confidence in my strength after I had decided to stay with her in the face of her A's.

Radical honesty all the way for me.

-OAK
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#1263703 01/19/05 04:55 AM
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Yes, tell your H. Tell your H each and every time OM tries to contact you. Always be honest and open with your H… Always... Honesty will go a far way in your recovery and by winning the trust of your H back. You have the opportunity now to show your H you are honest and trustworthy. Make use of it! You will not regret it and I'm sure your H will appreciate you for it!

By the way, bravo for deleting OM’s e-mail and not responding to him! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Is it possible for you to block OM’s e-mail address from you e-mail account?

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