Saturday my H told me we are over for now... what the He** does that mean... after 22 years of marriage and 3 wonderful kids...
He moved out for the 3rd time in November, after admitting to an affair in May of 04..since then I have begged pleaded and cried for him to come home...( not a first but deffinatly getting worse) I am in C he is not but admits he needs to go.. today I made an appointment to see a Dr. for some ADs.. I am hoping they help..
He says he just needs time to figure things out.. I feel like I'am out of time...
He dosen't even spend anytime with our kids ( 20, 18, 14) I know they have hectic schedules but he could at least call them..
After All this time I feel like I'am getting more depressed then ever..
I will not file for a D, if thats what he wants then he can do it.
I feel sorry for my 14yo. His father has spent a total of 5 hours with him over the last two weeks.
H says the A is over but I'll never be sure.. I know I need to get on with my life, and I manage most days, but latley I can't get out of this slump...
they say at MB's that once affairs have ennded it can take a couple of weeks (or more) to get passed the withdrawel of the OW and if contact is made that withdraw process starts all over agian. I think this can be true with a BS and WH, every time I see my H the with draw and rejection start all over again... I need to do a plan B and stick with it... thanks for listening..

so write your plan b letter...
post it here for feedback...

and seek serenity

ark