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Time Does Heal The Past!
#1264218 01/19/05 10:21 PM
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Even though we are not "home free", we are doing well. We talk about the A and the OM as a matter of fact happening in our lives and it seems to be minimal pain. We accept the past as a happening in our lives.

I CHOOSE to forgive and go forward, which means it can be done. I have my occasional moments still but they are less and less. One day at a time. Exposing the Affair was absolutely the number one tool that worked to disrupt the Affair. It simply tests the relationship that was built on lies and deceit.

I hope this helps a reader who is experiencing pain. I am one year past D-Day and 9 months past NC.

TooSoon
Re: Time Does Heal The Past!
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good for you two. Thank you for shareing, I wish you continued success!
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Re: Time Does Heal The Past!
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Great to hear Too Soon! So often, the pain and the hoplessness on the boards make it seem like things hardly EVER work out, but posts like this one serve to remind us all that following the MB plan CAN and DOES bring marriages back from infidelity. I'm so happy for you and your family!

Thanks for posting.
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Re: Time Does Heal The Past!
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”Time Does Heal The Past”

TooSoon, these words are so true…and I have experienced the wisdom of these words during my own recovery…

I’m SO glad things are going well with you and your W. Thanks for sharing and update us on your recovery.

May God continue to bless you and your W in your M.

All blessings, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Suzet

<small>[ January 20, 2005, 12:50 AM: Message edited by: Suzet* ]</small>

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