I can not BELIEVE the son of a ***** just called me!! I had her phone shut off. I was paying for it so the boys would have communication with her and so she could be here for the boys if I needed her on days when I couldn't back to meet them after school and stuff. She wasn't taking our calls or returning them, so I turned it off (After I found that this new [censored] was calling her.) The phone company said they would put a recording on that says the number was changed to MY number for 30 days. So I guess he figured she'd be at this number. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I told him she's married. He said he knows, that she said she was seperated from her husband. I told him I was her husband!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> He hung up. I tried to call him back several times (caller ID, that's how I knew it was him in the 1 st place), he didn't have the balls to answer. I am instantly so freakin mad right now!! What if one of my boys was to answer!!! I am going there <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I know I shouldn't but I am sick of the ****. He will at least know how I feel about this ****.

Stop, breathe... if only for your boys.

DO NOT go there, no good can come of this. I told myself the exact same thing yesterday as I sat in my car outside the OW's place of employment staring holes through the window.

You are angry, deservedly so, but DO NOT do someting you can't take back. Men tend to be pyhsical creatures... you can't parent your children from jail!

Pray, if you pray, and chill... do whatever it takes to STOP and think this through. YOU CAN DO IT!

So now there is an OM w/no balls out there, dribbling. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Calm down Intruder, I know this is upsetting you and justifiably so. Now what you do next is critical that you DON'T do anything immoral or illegal, ok?

Sit back and bit and breathe. I am sure you gave that worthless piece of scum the scare of his life. Know that he is hyperventilating without you doing anymore. In fact he will now live in fear that you could show up at any time.

Enjoy this change of events. Learn to pull the lemon out of this sour crap. Make lemonade, be as sweet as you can be for you and the children. As for the WS, stay away from her. YOu are too angry to even see or speak with her right now.

ok?

L.