I am always so hopeful that my WH will come around. Dday was 11/04/04, and after trying plan A I couldn't take the continued cell contact with OW. I asked him to move out this past weekend, still on a plan A deal (I know, very close to being a doormat, but at this piont I couldn't have NO contact with him).

Anyway, we're due a large snow storm with weekend and I did need his help to bring my son (from previous marriage) to a Karate class. Here's his e-mail from this morning. Does it sound like the fog may be lifting? Or is he's just trying to eat cake?

"I don't want you to feel like you cant ask me to help with things. It is not a problem at all. I can handle Billy in the morning and you should
hit the store tonight. This is all really hard for me too and I miss my home and my people very much. Trying to sort everything out including
the other thing so just work with me. Its all very difficult. Don't thank me for my time and consideration I will do whatever I have to in
order to help you out. Anyway have a good and I will talk to you at some point later."

Thanks. I don't have a clear head, I always try to see what I want/need to see.

Be very careful - I may be wrong and it shounds like he is being nice ect. But the Fog does roll back -I thought things looked great yesterday -then last night it rolled in heavier than before. Take care of your heart -I was so happy yesterday and am crashing today.

Fog. Cake. Unfortunately. But, he is going thru the process. It will take time. So, hang tough. It is a good sign he is still talking about you all though. So keep Plan Aing.

But, that note was typical cake eating.

In His arms.

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