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Well after out 1st. 6 months apart...and a D day..she came home for 4 months and then left....staying away for 2 months when I told her I was done and wanted a D she came home on New Years and wanted a fresh start...she then left 2 weeks later. Wed. I told her we needed to get together to save this our split up for could...she came home spenting 2 days and nights and when I returned home tonight from work she left me a voice mail that she was going out with her girl friends and would stay at her brothers tonight cause she didn't want me being mean. What shoul I do? Feb. 14th will be a year since her 1st leaving...she has never lokked me in the face and said "I don't love you"...she has said she doesn't want a D...just that she is scared and confused. Any thoughts?
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Do want off this roller coaster?
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I want her to make her mind up and follow her heart...she says she loves me....but I don't think she treats me as good as a friend could anymore. Just last night we spent the whole evening together without a bad moment. Today she loads up and leaves...I'm pretty much her doormat.
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So do you want t/b off the roller coaster?
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yes...I'm getting tired. Do you think plan B...might work?
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Welderboy, do you have a better idea?
Yeah, I think it's probably time for that. Either that or buh-bye.
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You need to get some rest. Not just physically but mentally and emotionally.
Is it time for plan B? Well is your mind and heart in sync yet? It maybe time but R U ready?
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Listen to GC and Orchid....
Time for you to get off the rollercoaster and get your head and mind in sync.
I am glad i took plan B coz now my head and mind is in sync and no more rollercoaster ride...just wait and living happy.
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Well. at 4:20 this morning...she phones from girlfriends, I just awakened...and wanted to hear your voice....told me , have you ever as a kid wanted to stay with someone...and then found out you wanted to be home...So at 6:30 she shows up here gets into bed after washing up...and says she wants to be here with me. Any thoughts? PS, yes she was sober...had watched a movie with 2 other single girls.
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