I have been having these dreams that weren't very clear, but yesterday morning the dream became clear. In the dream, the OW told me that she was pregnant and that I would never get my husband back because she was carrying his child. Well, after waking up yesterday morning for work, my husband asked me what was wrong and I told him nothing. Well, this dream had bothered me all day yesterday, so I decided to tell my spouse what was wrong later that night. But he went out with friends and it was late when he finally got home. So I decided that I would tell him this morning before we went off to work.

Well, when I told him this morning in the most concerned tone that I could come up with, he flew off the handle and belted out that it was just a dream. To counter what he said, I told him that if the dream was any indication as to where we were headed then... So now my husband is extremely upset with me. He did tell me that we would talk tonight, but this afternoon I got a phone call from him telling me that he was getting out of town. So I called him and asked where he was off to and he said I don't know (we're expecting a huge snowfall this weekend). I asked him when he was coming back and once again, "I don't know." I told him that I was hoping that he and I would be able to spend the weekend and if he could wait another hour I would be more than happy to go with him - he said, that he just wants to be left alone. Feeling that he's weekending with the OW. What am I supposed to do? My mind keeps wandering making assumptions - seems to me that he just doesn't want to talk about our situation. Why on earth do these WS think that we the BS are weak when we hear bad news? Don't they know that they've already hurt us so bad that anything else is just fluff? Also, how do you know when WS is out of the fog/addiction of the affair? Just asking for now...I know that my husband is still having the affair.

I'm at my wits end. It's kind of nice having the place all to myself, but at the same time I feel thoroughly disgusted knowing that they were here together.

I sit and try to figure out what I want out of life...composing a letter telling husband how I feel...don't know if I should give this to him.

An alien has invaded my husband - now give him back!

Those dreams are ugly aren't they? They are called nightmares and for some of us they reoccur daily. Mine went on for about 3 weeks. My son's lasted for about 1 1/2 weeks. Each nite the same dream just an added chapter..... spooky or what?

It c/b your mind's way of letting you know what is really happening. Deep down you may know the A is continuing.

His reaction is very telling. You be safe. He will have to deal with the consquences. If he comes home and finds his things waiting for him in the garage, then he will know you have reached a decision. If he comes home and finds you out there with open arms welcoming him back..... he knows he can do this again. Unless he calls and can convince you he wasn't with the OW......would you really believe it? Just food for thought.... hope it doesn't upset you too much. ;(

L.