Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
O
Member
Member
O Offline
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Mods,

It has been brought to my attention on JustJ's thread that google and maybe other search engines can find out posts. This is not safe.

Please let us know what can be done.

Thanks,
L.

Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 2,823
C
Member
Member
C Offline
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 2,823
^bump^

Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 274
B
Member
Member
B Offline
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 274
This came up about 2 years ago on the Emotional Needs board (I think), and one poster's solution was to change her name frequently. Don't know if that worked. She posted under the same name on several boards (not related to MB), and all her posts from the various boards came up on Google. At least it kept someone from consistently finding her postings on MB.

Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
C
Member
Member
C Offline
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
It looks to me like you have to put in the marriagebuilders web site name as well as the name of the poster. You can do from google something similar to what you can do on the marriagebuilders web site. I'm not sure it matters.

Cherished

Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
O
Member
Member
O Offline
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Justuss posted on JustJ's thread..... isn't there a way to block all the site's from search engines?

Ooohhh me and my simple non computerized mind.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

L.

Joined: Sep 2001
Posts: 5,733
R
Member
Member
R Offline
Joined: Sep 2001
Posts: 5,733
ok sis since you asked ....

good spiders (program that mined your pages) would load robots.txt and suppose to honor the rules. Pages also could have meta-tag "no spider". However this is by honor basis.

Now, I don't know why people freak out about their posts. If you don't want to be identified then you should take your own percausion !!!. We have handle to masquerade our identity.

What are your concerned about search engines, sis ?. It is even easier to use serach info here than via google for your posts.

-rh-

Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 372
I
Member
Member
I Offline
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 372
okay, here's my view on this. If you wanted your identity to be kept secret you should have chosen a screen name that noone you know would think to look you up under.

the forums are open to the public and i think that's good. that way others who need it can find it.

As for our Spouses finding our posts, I'm sure a lot of them already know about MB by us trying to introduce them to the principles. So they wouldn't need google to look up your postings.

Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
O
Member
Member
O Offline
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Yea well, my user name is a common flower.....didn't think about that when I chose it. So can you imagine what people see when they look up Orchid on Google? YIKES!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.

Joined: Apr 1999
Posts: 8,016
C
Member
Member
C Offline
Joined: Apr 1999
Posts: 8,016
Google allows a site specific search also.
Go into google and put this in to the search block.

orchid site:www.marriagebuilders.com.

Just put in the search term, followed by site: and the web site to search on.

Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
O
Member
Member
O Offline
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Chris -CA123:
<strong> Google allows a site specific search also.
Go into google and put this in to the search block.

orchid site:www.marriagebuilders.com.

Just put in the search term, followed by site: and the web site to search on. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok Chris, I did that..... all I found were posts either by me or my name mentioned in there..... including my PROFILE!!!!

I have a Nikken website that does not show up on google. How come?

Now the question is how to stop this from showing up on the 1st few pages or at all.

L.

<small>[ January 25, 2005, 01:45 AM: Message edited by: Orchid ]</small>

Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 4,178
G
Member
Member
G Offline
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 4,178
O, I do appreciate your concern, but personally... I don't share it.

I think there's a decent chance my WS and OP know all about me here. And I do not care, even though I might have had my share of vents.

It's a good idea for everybody to remember that the web is the web, in all its wide-open glory. Maybe the forms used for member registration ought to include a few warnings...

GC

Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
O
Member
Member
O Offline
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Per Suzet's tip from her thread:

Suzet's suggestion on how to reduce the search engine exposure

It worked for me. I now have 2 user names but the 2nd registered one (requires a new e-mail address <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> ).... but it worked. Now when someone searched just under the word Orchid......my MB stuff doesn't show on the 1st few pages.

Thanks Suzet.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.


Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 116 guests, and 26 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Countfunkula, mollye14, Pansu, sakyt, George Mixflicke
72,372 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Just checking in
by markos - 10/07/26 05:55 PM
Just checking in
by markos - 10/07/26 05:55 PM
What happens if we both have developed aversions?
by Samuel Connely - 10/03/26 02:12 PM
Separated/Dating
by mark_foster - 09/20/26 04:14 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,661
Posts2,323,619
Members72,372
Most Online9,682
May 13th, 2026
deneme bonusu
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0