I have often visted this sight looking for info, but now I am serious. I came home one afternoon lastweek, to find my bed made differently. We women know these thing's. As I approuched the sloppily made bed, I noticed spots that I know weren't there when I made it that morning. I pulled down the top comforter to discover what looked to be makeup on the underside of the top edge of the top sheet, and on "My Pillow Case" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> God she was on my side of what "was" our bed
I never go to bed with makeup on! I peeled the bed down by layers, finding hairs to long to be mine, all throughout the bed, and under "My pillow! I had, and still have a feeling something is up. Then 5 mintues later my H walks in the door, claiming he got out of work early. I asked him he if had been home already, and as his voice changed he said no, why? I began to tell him of my findings, and of course I got one big deniel.
I was told he had nothing to do with what ever I found, and that I was crazy to even think that he would bring someone to the house. Then he stromed off to the other room where he ignored me the rest of the evening. Later that night while getting ready for my bath, I discovered a condom on the floor on my side of the bed! Under my slippers <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> . Apparently put there by the OW for me to find. I asked him about it, and once again got the same answer.Now it would be my thinking that if it wasn't yours I said to him, then that would mean, 1) I used it with someone else in our bed today, in which case I wouldn't be standing here asking you about it, & your not upset about it at all. Or 2) A stranger broke into our home, had sex in our bed, tried to remake it to look like it never happened, and then left. which of thoses two do you believe I asked, he told me that if I didn't leave him alone with this BullS, that he was going to leave.
I headed for the bathroom where upon removing the tags of my brand new lingerie, I once again came upon stains that should not be there.... I walked out of the bathroom into the livingroom, and yelled at H, not staying to hear anymore lies, I threw it in the kitchen trash. I Can't believe him <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> , does he think that I am that stupid. I don't know who the OW is, but she has to be pretty low to come into our home, do it in our bed, and wear my lingerie! I am going to call my lawyer tomarrow. H refused to leave, when I asked him to. Said he was going to bed, I threw his stuff on the sofa while he was in the bathroom, and locked myself in the bedroom.
However I just couldn't bring myself to lay down in "that" bed, where my H had the OW earlier. "YUK" so I went and threw his stuff on the floor of the bedroom, and I slept on the sofa, he couldn't understand why. He got very upset, and yelled a few obsenities at me then stromed off to bed. Now am I suppose to use plan A, or B. H will not leave when I tell him to, haven't really tried plan A, things have been just too nasty between us, and we have been arguing alot latly, but it's mostly been H who has started it. I feel it's because he is gulity, and angry with himself. I find it very diffacult to get near him, or do anything nice for him. What do I do now?
<small>[ January 23, 2005, 04:23 PM: Message edited by: Fantasia ]</small>
