I saw a picture of the OW...she looks like an OGRE! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> OMG, she is UUUGGGLYYY! She really does look like she ran into a wall, just as the alien said! Gawlly, I feel sorry for that guy! I would be sooo embarrassed to be seen in public with her! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Mom,

Don't get me started!!!!!!!!!!

My OW is almost 10 years older than me!

You know it's not about how the OW looks, it's how WH feels about himself when he's with her. He likes how it makes him feel when he sees himself in her eyes. Yuck.

I love it -and orge!!!!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> He likes how it makes him feel when he sees himself in her eyes. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is ever so true. Esp. when they lower themselves so far - the only thing that will make them feel better is being with someone worse off than themselves.

At least thats what I've gleaned from Nio.

A friend of mine saw the OW and said she is sooooo ugly. She said she has a big nose and no style. She said i look like Miss Universe compared to her. Hehehehehe!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

A friend of mine saw the OW and said she is sooooo ugly. She said she has a big nose and no style. She said i look like Miss Universe compared to her. Hehehehehe!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 04:53 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Momto3Boys:
<strong>...she looks like an OGRE!</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Most of OP are not an upgrade to their own BS ... what's a matter with WS ?.

They failed to guard their ENs and added deadly fantasy ... ORGE would look like Julia Robert <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

-rh-

Oh my, my husbands OW is 10 years my senior, and looks like she...............
I can't even find the words...
She just looks like pure ****!

Danielle

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 06:09 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

there is truth to the matter. The OW in my case was a 19 year old who drank underage, smoked (not a big deal) ciggs- and pot. She wore the same size clothes as me- however I had just had the third baby and had not lost the wieght yet. SHe had brown hair and chewed with her mouth open. Her own parents kicked her out so many times it was rather sad. I do not think she was cute- but H sure did/does- probably because she adored everything he said and did. However is she was so perfect and his soulmate and if I was the biggest mistake and he was forced to marry me, then why did he come back?

M23B- I have seen you you are BEAUTIFUL!!! It would be hard for your H to find a woman to even hold a candle to you. You are beautiful from the inside out.

This is another one of those things that stike me sometime....just how similar all of BS stories are so similar to each other....and we come from such differing areas, backgrounds, etc......it seems all WS's are somehow linked....

I got to know one of my neighbors recently, and once I talked a little about my sitch with him, he said, "Oh that must be that wierd looking guy that was helping her move her stuff the other day...."

No prompting from me - he said that on his own.....so I am not the only one who thinks my WW's OM is odd looking....it must be true!

TM

DanigirlinVA..."She just looks like pure ****!"

LMAO.....I know what ya mean! I think all the OP are all **** inside and out!!!!

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 06:23 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

Okay, well at least I'm not alone. I mean, the girl is 4 years younger than me...but big deal, what the hell does that mean? She's not 19....she's fricken ugly..she looks like one of the keebler elves on crack....wears no make up (my husband always tried to get me to wear more), doesn't do anything with her hair, it's just long and brown.....I mean I thought this girl looked like a friggen hippy throwback 4ever...I've known her for like 5 years....never felt threatened by her or anyone else....stupid me.

I never talk to WH about her, but when I have in the past, and I've called her his Keebler Elf, he got so pissed. LMFAO.....he also knows that I will have no problem in the man department, and is not shy about vocalizing his jealousy about it, there's all sorts of stuff I'm not allowed to take because "You'll use it for/with another guy" What am I supposed to play for the other team now? Or maybe become a nun? I don't think so....that's fine, I don't want that old stuff....I'll go buy new stuff ******....LMAO


-Caren

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 06:40 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

Hey Caren watch it- the OW for me was 19- that does not make her a hot piece of ***- only a home wreaking peice of trash. Anyway she is not worth my effort- I am better then that.

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 06:41 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

Hi M23B!!! I've been thinking about you a lot. I am so happy to hear your spirits are up!

You're WH would have a hard time finding a woman as beautiful...inside and out....as you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

FIM

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 07:16 PM: Message edited by: faithinme ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by CSue:
<strong> Mom,

Don't get me started!!!!!!!!!!

My OW is almost 10 years older than me!

You know it's not about how the OW looks, it's how WH feels about himself when he's with her. He likes how it makes him feel when he sees himself in her eyes. Yuck. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I agree with CSue, it's not about looks. My WW says she is not even physically attracted to "wonderboy".

My WH says it's not about looks either. WHATEVER!!!!! They can have each other.

<small>[ January 24, 2005, 08:44 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>

It's not about the looks! I KNOW I am WAY prettier than the Ogre! the Alien has even said so himself!

The alien continues to say that he is not happy with the Ogre, that he never will be happy with her!

WHATEVER!

But yet he is willing to leave his family to be with her!

She can give him what he wants, and that is SEX! That is ALL she can give him! Boy, that is going to get mighty old...REAL quick...especially with a baby on the way! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Someone said once that she needed to put a bag over her head while they are having sex...I have to agree with that person now!

GAWD, she is dog ugly! Wait, my DOG is much prettier than she is! She is just UGGGGLYYY! I mean really ugly...she looks like she ran into a wall! Man, I feel sorry for him!

don't feel sorry for that man in the least. He is the idiot who is giving everything up for the temporary feelings that he is getting from her where if he tried for a milla second he could easily have with you. He may SAY that he tried but they were only half As$ attempts and he knows it. I hope one day that D23B's wakes up and sees what he has given up and for what- and hopefully before it is too late.

Has D23B considered the paternity test more?

OM is no match physically, but he's a prominent physician, occasionally flies...or used to, a chopper for an Air ambulance service, and owns his own airplane. I have no doubt that my WW feels validated as a result that a man of that "stature" would find her interesting.

He also has a wife.... separated after my call to inform her of this affair , and two sons around 10 and 12 I think.

No, physical aesthetics has no bearing on this. I used to feel inadequate, as my resume will never match his. I no longer suffer that comparison as I see him as a very accomplished well-educated piece of worm phlegm not worthy to carry my dirty jock strap to the hamper.

OMW described herself to me as quite attractive, though I've never seen her. She's a physician as well. I know WW is very attractive, but if that's his motivation, we know how short lived that is. I also feel sorry for WW if her beauty is blinding him to the mess they've created. If so, she is merely his present "bimbo" until he finds one prettier, with less baggage and in the same city he lives.

Once they split...I do feel that's inevitable...WW may no longer have me to return to. She then will realize that she signed a document that has given up her right to parent on ALL weekends so she can pursue her fantasy lifestyle. She has effectively relegated her role to our children and me as that of a nanny. Silly woman.


Edited by Binder to remove some stuff that was beneath me.

<small>[ January 25, 2005, 12:36 PM: Message edited by: Binder ]</small>