I know I am jumping the gun on this, but I have to post this now, otherwise I will forget! I feel that "Kandi" will be getting a LOT of slack from this show...not sure why, but for a few reasons and I will explain them...

1. In the show they portray her kids as being her intermediaries while she is in Plan B. That is NOT the case at all! The intermediary was never mentioned, well actually she was, not by name, but they edited it out. They show the kids making a phone call to the dad trying to find out where he was cuz he was late picking them up one day...What they do not show is WHY the call was made...it only shows the youngest talking to the dad...at which point Dr Phil tells "kandi" that she cannot have the kids as intermediaries! DUH!

2. The OW on the show is not "Ed's" OW! They also make it look like the OW is "Ed's" OW in the previews!

3. There is a comment made about the OW's child on the show...A comment that just came flying out of the mouth of the BS. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Judge for yourself on that one!

4. They wanted "kandi" to go on the show and say flat out "I want a divorce"...she never says that! Only "Kandi" can decide (and her H) whether they want a divorce...neither of them does at this time...they feel there is still hope in their marriage.

There is also a YOUNG BS on the show with no kids. She left her WH when she found out..good for her! It seems lots of people want to give "kandi" the good ole advice of leave him, but is anyone walking in her shoes?

anyway, just a heads up for the show...! A litle early I know..but, didn't want to forget to post it!

mt3b,

my VCR is set to tape ...

Is DD on the show too ?, just curious.

-rh-

no, he's not on this one!

I'll be watching too!
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What the heck time does Dr. Phil come on?? LOL I never watch TV.

It's you on there right M23?? Just using the "Kandi" alias? LMAO I'm so confused.

Oh BTW Mom.....can you e-mail me?
the_pieces_of_my_broken_heart@yahoo.com

Do you mind if I e-mail you if I have a question?

-Caren

<small>[ January 31, 2005, 01:50 PM: Message edited by: CarenMc ]</small>

This was on Dr.Phil's website:

The Doctor, the Wife and the Mistress
Dr. Phil continues his in-depth look into the anatomy of an affair. Remember Ed, the married doctor with the pregnant mistress? His wife, Kandi, has hired a private investigator to follow him. Now, Kandi sees the other woman for the first time! Then, a mistress who has a 2-year-old child with a married man has something to say to married women — and Dr. Phil has something to say to her! Plus, a husband who was caught by his own incredible web of lies. See what his wife has to say about his cheating ways.

<small>[ January 31, 2005, 01:53 PM: Message edited by: CarenMc ]</small>

Kandi is my real name...no alias! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

You've got mail!

Oh, you put quotations around your name so I thought it was an alias....checking mail now.


I read through what they have on the website about the previous show...I love Dr.Phil, he's just so straight forward..LOL

-Caren

Kandi,

I'll be watching too.

I'm glad about what you said -- despite what he has put you through, you aren't saying you want a divorce. Plan B protects you and gives him time to wake up.

He needs to stop digging!

Someone I know is also watching. Her husband went to a lawyer who cooked up an abuse charge as a way for her, a stay at home mom, to be removed from the house and asked to get a job and pay child support. The abuse charges were thrown out. The husband is in an apartment. The husband is paying child support and alimony. Like your husband, he just keeps digging. He's coming around to people like me trying to say poor me, look at what Julie did to me.

There are lots of Eds out there, and you're helping all the Kandis by being on the show and demonstrating a dignified commitment to marriage. Good for you!

Cherished

<small>[ February 01, 2005, 02:46 AM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>