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Nellie2,

I think your post is very interesting and I would like you to elaborate more here. I don't want your comment got lost. I am busy today but could you answer Bob's question ?


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Nellie2:
<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It's nearly impossible to salvage a marriage if both partners aren truly interested in doing so. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And if both partners are truly interested in salvaging the marriage, they can, with or without MB.

You can't have it both ways - MB can not take credit for marriages saved while claiming it still "worked" when the marriage ended in divorce.

I would also not recommend MB to anyone who was interested in saving his or her marriage. Much of it is not harmful, but often pretty obvious - it is not rocket science that it is a good idea to spend time with your spouse for instance. There are some repercussions of Plan A and Plan B that I believe are truly harmful, not only to the prospect of saving the marriage but also to the self-esteem and financial well-being of the BS. In retrospect, I suspect I would have been better off had I never stumbled upon this site 6 years ago. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

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