This may be innocent fun, but it could be a symptom of other things, like does she has a deep seeded need for attention from other men. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> It may seem natural to understand that she would get a certain "charge" from this. Which she may calmly explain away as natural, like what woman does not appreciate some attention from other men. And that you are too controlling and jealous. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> This of course could lead to other more advanced needs for these "Charged" feelings from other guys. If it is not a compulsion & no big deal & she knows it annoys you, then why can she not refraim? A good defense is sometime a strong offense. People with strong compulsions can be very convincing to defend their actions. It is a dance I am very familar with.
You may want to visit the emtional needs board and look for Kasey1's thread.
Again, could be innocent ... it sounds like your feelings are telling you different though -- it is not uncommon for a person with compulsive actions to try very hard to convince you, their partner, not to trust your own feelings, your instincts on this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
Like I said, it could be innocent & my personal experience may tain my views. It all depends of course. If the gestures include touching for example, this may be serious. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Not that anything has happened ... yet. Some guys will be agressive than others in responding to flirting .. again this can be a crazy dance! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
Peace, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
HH
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