How did she find this site? I believe that my husband used a user name that she was familiar with. Being that the OW has ALOT of time on her hands and ALOT of hatred for me, she probably browses the internet constantly, looking for chinks in our armor.
In a letter to her previous victim, she quoted verbatim, our replies to a post in the pregancy forum. I also have suspicions that a former friend of mine is talking to her on Yahoo. Needless to say, I have stopped associating with that person. Not for that reason, but it's best that I keep my distance from her.
Anyway, the OW is quite clever and manipulative. She knows her way around the legal system. She threatens me just so far, without breaking any laws. The police have told me that since her Yahoo profile is a public domain site, and since she doesn't come right out and name names, that there's nothing they can do. In fact, we were laughed at the last time we called them to file an informational report. But, at least it's on record.
I am dealing with a psycho OW who will never quit. Ever. Even though she tried to pretend that she was pregnant and had an abortion, of which she demanded $5000 from my husband, which no proof was ever offered, she actually believes that my husband wronged her. The man that she scammed before meeting my husband....she's been harassing him for almost 7 years. The problem is that he does actually have a daughter with her, but she has custody.
I won't go into more details, because it seems that anything I may write could be used against me. She's very adept at twisting words and making the legal system see her as the victim. For all I know, she could read this thread later. ??
I just go about my normal life, and make sure I'm aware if anything out of the ordinary. A car following me, someone following me in a grocery store, keeping my doors locked, etc. It's all I can do until she snaps.
God will protect me, I have to trust Him to keep His promises.
Thanks for your concern. I'm taking what I've learned out of this situation and helping others who are dealing with the same. It's the least I can do, since alot of people here helped me.