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Something nice from FWH
#1271702 02/04/05 11:13 AM
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My FWH just sent this website to me, so I thought I would share it with you all. It's very nice! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

http://www.gangineh.com/negah/i%20love%20you.JPG


Not to be negative about it, but this type of emails are the type of things I have been waiting my whole marriage for. How do I know it is sincere, and will last? How do I know when we are comfortable again, he won't do it again?
I am trying to accept his willingness to be a good husband again, he was for 10 years before the affair. I am just afraid! Any thoughts??
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Re: Something nice from FWH
#1271703 02/04/05 05:22 PM
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
True, I just saw this post. What a lovely thing to send you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I would just wait and let him keep putting actions behind the words. That is how you will know he is sincere.
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That was very sweet! Wow...if my WH sent me something like that I'd probably fall over dead! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Keep letting him prove that he loves you!
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Very nice <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Hon, try not to read too much into this kinda stuff....he's trying. Just enjoy that your husband sent you this really thoughtful e-mail.

The proof will be in the proverbial pudding, but don't rob yourself of the simple joy of this kinda stuff.

-Caren
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True, sometimes you just have to take things at face value and live in the moment. I say ENJOY.
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Thank you all for the replies. Yes, I will just enjoy the moment. After all that's all we can ever be sure of right? There are never any guarantees on the future, good or bad!
Again, thanks for reminding me of this! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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#1271708 02/05/05 12:25 PM
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Yep Sweetie.....you enjoy!

Hope everything continues to go well. Make sure that you tell your H how much you appreciated that he sent you that. Showing him your appreciation will reinforce these little displays of affection <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

-Caren

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