Just a quick note regarding some of the posts I've read regarding Cerri's situation and her reaction to it. I credit this woman, as I know many of you do, with helping me get through some of my darkest moments. Times when I thought the pain would never go away. Times when I thought I would never eat another bite of food, sleep another wink, or smile another smile. Cerri told her H what would happen if anything like this occured and he chose to do what he did. Penny stood by her promise to expose him on Save Your Marriage Central and on this site despite the fact that she knew her announcement would be so public and painful. Cerri was well aware that there would be those of us who would respond with judgment and strong criticism. After all, she is the "expert." We must all remember that there is no such thing as an expert when it comes tne pain and agony we experience from betrayal, traumatic loss, or death. No matter how many times we experience any of those, we crumble inside and seek the strength to lift ourselves out of the darkness and move toward creating something from the experience that is good and worthwhile. I suppose what I'm trying to say is that Cerri reacted out of unspeakable hurt. The rest of us have had our similar moments and reactions. We would not be here if we didn't. Please be kind and do not hold Cerri, or anyone else, to a "professional standard" 24/7, that would have them be super-human. Simply wish for Cerri what she has wished for all of us throughout our journeys. Love, peace, understanding, and all that is good. After all, we're all in this together.(((Hugs)))to you all -G_S