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Ok....I just got an email from my WH.....
It was mostly about our son but this was thrown in there....
"And I do hope you find the fish in the sea youre looking for, as I am sure that there are plenty for you...I wish you good will and good luck. And you are right, I do have to teach myself to stop worrying about you. I guess that once I know you are standing on your own in everyway, I will be able to fully let go for that matter."
Maybe he really is done with me and doesn't care.
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HMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm
Ask him to pay some of your bills.
See what happends.
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Or you could email him and say that you bet there are plenty of fish in the sea for him, too. Like that's going to be his last OW....
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I have had my WW say the same type of thing. I am sure you will find a new woman who will respect you and treat you right as you deserve that. You will have plenty to choose from as you are a great guy.
I have never understood this, it is like she wants me to agree so she can carry on with no guilt.
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Pep...Yea...that ought to get him threatening me again. LOL
grapegirl...yea...she won't be the last OW!!!
Well, yea...she will be because I'm divorcing him but she won't be the last sleeze I should say.
alank...I don't understand it either. It blows my mind how they could want their spouse with someone else. I guess it just helps them justify what they are doing. I wonder if he will ever regret it????
<small>[ February 07, 2005, 08:56 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich* ]</small>
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Geeze Tree....you attention monger, how the heck many times did you need to post your WH's e-mail...I mean it was funny the first time, but now it's just redundant....GOSH!!! LMAO...okay, I just thought it was amusing that it was on here twice, yes, it's true, I am easily amused.
LOL!!!
-Caren
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LOL...I don't know why that always happens to me.....I'm the double post queen! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Trish, while Squid was in fog, she encouraged me to find someone else too. Hard in fact.
Yesterday she admitted to me that neither she nor OM were going to leave their spouses for each other. Thats not true because at the time SHE did intend that but HE didn't.
Its taken five months of NC to get Squid to this even half-sane place. While your WH is with Frenchie he will get a fog-refill every day.
You really must stop taking any notice of what he says Tree. He'll send you another mail today saying he needs your forgiveness again.
He can't be sensible right now,PLEASE pay them no heed.
{{{{tree}}}}
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I'm trying Bob. It's just hard not to take what he's saying to me at heart. I was with this man for 17 years and it's hard to replace the person that he was with this alien that he is now. The man I married would have never in a million years treated me this way. The funny thing is.....when we met I knew he was so different from other guys. He was sweet, gently, caring and had a great relationship with his parents. He was also going to church every Sunday and we enjoyed that together for years. He wrote me a letter one time (I still have it) that said he was different than all the other guys and he would never hurt me. What happened to this man? It really saddens me to think about that man I married. I can just feel my heart cracking when I remember who he was back then.
Life really takes some turns and twists huh????
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