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Those of you that know my story know that my wife has had 3 EA's (and possibly PA) and never wants to address the problem through MC or anything. She just blames me.
She has had me over a couple of times and is very nice to me but if I even mention reconciling she comes up with a list of excuses of everything that I have done wrong and most of them (if not all) are not true. She says I have had an affair (never in 19 years!). She says we cannot get back together because our friends of her turned on her. The list goes on and on.
I know the marraige is over. I just need some support today.
Thanks
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Why don't you ask Orchid for some help with reverse babble when your W says things like that to you? Is there any truth in the list she gives you of what you have done over the years? Have you discussed these items with the MC?
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There is no truth. I am a wonderful husband and father. I have admitted that I unknowingly may have not met her EN's and I can change that. She has done this 3 times and I am just devasted.
She never wants to work on it. But she always comes back.
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