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KY,
I think that has been the big problem for us. The respect issue. I do respect her, I feel. But I don't think she respects me. I have tried to change my attitude to get it but it is so hard. We talk about it in MC, but it does not change.
After my W found out. We went away for the weekend to discuss it. We were both very unhappy, despite the A. After talking and crying and asking ourselves why we weren't meeting each others needs and how we got so off track. My W was actually thinking about a Divorce. Anyway for about 2 months our M was better than it had ever been. All aspects. And then one day she says that all that was just her way of dealing with the A. I was being the H she wanted, and she was being the W i wanted. and she even admitted that it was great. What the he** happened.
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KY,
I think that has been the big problem for us. The respect issue. I do respect her, I feel. But I don't think she respects me. I have tried to change my attitude to get it but it is so hard. We talk about it in MC, but it does not change.
After my W found out. We went away for the weekend to discuss it. We were both very unhappy, despite the A. After talking and crying and asking ourselves why we weren't meeting each others needs and how we got so off track. My W was actually thinking about a Divorce. Anyway for about 2 months our M was better than it had ever been. All aspects. And then one day she says that all that was just her way of dealing with the A. I was being the H she wanted, and she was being the W i wanted. and she even admitted that it was great. What the he** happened.
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