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My d-day was six weeks ago. Since then my h and i have became so much closer. He never loved the ow. Up until this weekend he told me it was only a kiss. Then sunday he confessed they almost went all the way he ended up stopping because he got scared. I just don't know how you get that far and just stop.We have drefted apart but found our way back. We over the past two weeks came even closer and our going away for the first time since we were married twelve yrs ago.Do i let this set me back?If not any advice on how not to let it bother me so very much?
Thanks
LL
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LL,
Welcome to MB. You are here because you want to heal and help your M. It is good your H is not too foggy.
Take a look at the concepts section above. If you can both you and your H should take the EN Questionnaire. If he won't you do it twice. Once as yourself and once as him.
Read His Needs/Her Needs together if possible. See if you can setup phone counseling sessio or 2 with Stve H. It w/b worth every penny.
As for you, most BS go through several stages during their recovery. Click on the link in my sig line referring to the 5 stages of grieving thread. It may help you see what you may feel at a later data.
take care,
L.
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