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Youl'd think with 41000 members, someone would be awake for us who can't sleep!

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TLP, theres a good sized " time zone" night shift, but we're all really busy today for soem reason !

RIF is serving in Afghanistan, KiwiJ is in New Zealand, LINY works nights ( but not for long!) Orchid is in Hawaii and FNCJ and others are real night birds.

Try again on another day and you'll find the nightshift around !

All blessings

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Hi David,

Never spoke to you before, but have been following your story. I think your doing a great job of handleing your situation, however, I don't beleive you fell for that "Let me end it gently over the course of the next four months while you're across the country in Texas" line. Its seems to me that you've got all your concepts together and a good action plan, however, it falls apart everytime you interact with your WW. I'm not trying to judge you as I know it must be very tough not to jump at every glimmer of hope. IMHO, and I'm far from an expert, allowing her to continue for 4 months while you move across the country is a recipe for disaster. Also the way you said that you would except the divorce option if you had too, indicates to me that you're not quite sure what you want. If you're going to do a serious plan B, focus on yourself. What do you really want??

Sorry, this is meant to be a hello... not a 2x4 <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Curiosity,

I think you have David confused with TravellingMan.

David is in Oregon, and not going to Texas. His situation is protecting his kids, and hoping his WW will wake up soon.

I'm sure tho that your thoughts are well recieved, by both TLP & TM.

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oooops ... thanks hosea

sorry about that david. lol

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LOL Sprint is starting to sleep again <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> we go to bed early - lets say 9-10ish, and so our talking is all done by 1am-ish and we are sleeping <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Before it would be me sleeping and he would still be up.

i take this as a good sign - the nightmares he had seem to not be plaguing his sleep <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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