OK sent the email, here is how it went:
Me: I have plans for the kids Sunday, do you still want to see them Saturday evening? But Sunday we will be busy.
WW:Since DD was going to the mall with her friend on Saturday, I wanted
to take them to the Florida State Fair on Sunday. There isn't enough
time when I see them in the evening. I want to spend the whole day with
them. I think you can do whatever you had planned next weekend.
ME: I realize that the time you are available for your kids is limited, I'm
sorry for that. I waited until you gave them indication of your desires,
and I made plans at that time, I am not changing our plans. Please let
me know if you still want to see the kids Saturday evening.
WW:What is it that you are doing?
ME: I have a surprise planned for the kids, I see no reason to share that
with you. The kids & I will be together.
Please let me know about Saturday evening.
WW:What, am I going to tell them or something? You say you want to talk,
but you are playing games.
ME:I am not playing games. I would love to talk with you in person where we can have each others undivided attention. Maybe we can meet for lunch one day to talk, that way we can have a discussion in a public place so neither of us will feel intimidated, I do not want to argue with you.
Right now, I am sorry you have to hear this, but I do not feel safe trusting you, I hope you can understand why. I am not saying that to hurt you, but it is the truth.
Trust is something that is earned over a long period of time based on actions, and destroyed over a short period of time based on words & actions.
After my last reply I recieved a "deleted email" notice (she must be able to customize the read reciepts she sends, cause I know she would've read my response) and no further response from her.
She will call the kids later this evening, and probably tell them I won't let her take them to the fair. But I am prepared for this.
[B] Once the Custody is settled I can see no other than PLAN B
