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#1274977 02/10/05 03:01 PM
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Well, 17 years ago today my WH asked me to marry him. I actually hadn't thought about it until just now. I wonder if he even remembers????

I made my son a red velvet cake and we're having a really yummy dinner tonight. The only thing I can say is....if it weren't for that day I wouldn't have my beautiful boy!!!!!!!!!
I love that kid more than anything and I thank God every day for him.

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Oh tree my 21 year day came and went with nothing -he doesn't seem to remember anything like that anymore - I did but said nothing about why bother -eat cake before dinner.. kids love things like that..

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This Sunday will be the 16th Anniversary of me asking WW to be my lifelong mate.

Funny, I meant it, she obviously didn't

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TR -

So sorry for your pain, but congratulations on being able to see how God can bring blessings out of even a bad situation.

Sounds like a WONDERFUL reason to enjoy red velvet cake.

Take care -

Georgia

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realtor...sounds like a good idea..we just may have a peice od cake before dinner. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Hosea.....Yea..I meant meant it too but guess it meant nothing to him.

GG...I'm doing my best to make the best out of this bad situation. I KNOW there is someone better out there for me.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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<small>[ February 10, 2005, 03:51 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich* ]</small>

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Wow! Feb 7th was 18 yrs to the day FWH and I met...and first held hands and kissed (a peck,I was only 15!)

Except he did remember and wish me Happy Anniversary! So can't complain too much!

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My WH never even acknowledeged our 15th wedding anniv. I spent a nice evening withmy son instead. It did tear me up inside that he didn't acknowledge it but one day I will have a man who will treat me like I deserve to be treated. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
God...how long does it take to get divorced in Florida????? UUGGHHH

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Tree,

If it is uncontested a D in florida can be done in a few weeks.

Since there is minor kids, you both have to take a parenting course, then you file the petition, mediation is required, and then the final hearing can be scheduled. like I said if uncontested it is relatively fast.

I am afraid of that in my case, I filed, but I only want the custody settled, then I want the D to take FOREVER

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21 days to be exact! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

And how about sending me some of that red velvet cake - via - UPS!

FR <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Hosea....I'm sure he will contest everything. He's not agreeing on me getting the house. UUGGHHH>..I truly just want this over with.

FR...The red velvet cake was delicious!!!! My son has had about 4 slices already. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


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