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Hello everyone. Well, H is still seeing OW. It will be one year at the end of Feb. I got the ILYB speech 3/04..he's been out of the house since June.
I don't know what to do. I've been taking care of myself -- he is in MLC. I have other threads, just don't know how to link them (sorry).
I don't know where to go from here. He's basically stopped calling, emailing -- avoids conversations about $$. Both he and I have separate accounts. I sent him a listing of expenses, his were $3k...he was concerned. Now he's taken me off the joint acct and I have no way to transfer $ into my individual acct to pay the mortgage (we still own the house).
I've tried to be supportive. Plan B seems silly b/c he's not contacting me. Every now and then I see him (to pick up D12 or yesterday to drop off her cell phone) but other than that, he's going his separate way.
Any ideas as to what to do next? I appreciate any and all ideas.
Thanks.
Susan
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Sorry to hear about your situation. The only advice I can give you is to take care of yourself and your child. Be the best YOU can be and if your husband doesn't come back then you will be in a better place.
My WH has been gone and living with OW since July. I was a mess in the beginning but now I'm feeling great and starting to enjoy being alone with my son. Life is too short to be unhappy.
I wake up everyday and thank God that I have my son and that I'm healthy.
Stay strong and you will get through this mess!
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Sorry to hear about your situation. The only advice I can give you is to take care of yourself and your child. Be the best YOU can be and if your husband doesn't come back then you will be in a better place.
My WH has been gone and living with OW since July. I was a mess in the beginning but now I'm feeling great and starting to enjoy being alone with my son. Life is too short to be unhappy.
I wake up everyday and thank God that I have my son and that I'm healthy.
Stay strong and you will get through this mess!
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HELP....I'm on the edge and feel like calling it quits.
H hasn't made a move to help himself or our R...just keeps being nice. Think the nice is about wanting a divorce but feeling guilty and wanting to be friends.
HELP
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