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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by options:
<strong> Update:

Just got email from WW about SH appointment;
"Wednesday at 2:30 would be best"

I am scheduling now!!!

Opt. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MelodyLane:
<strong> Bob, what exactly are you objecting to? The email or the idea of contacting him at all? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Mel I'm not objecting, but when I was messed up and scared OMs lies and arrogance just served to rile me and told me nothing useful.

A BS can expect an OM to lie and manipulate or get angry....any what possibly likely response will be any use to friend Opt ?

Better save contact for when theres a tightly defined purpose IMO.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Just got email from WW about SH appointment;
"Wednesday at 2:30 would be best"

I am scheduling now!!!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yay! This is good.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by b0b pure*:
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Better save contact for when theres a tightly defined purpose IMO. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh believe me, there is a very tightly defined purpose. To scare the HELL out of him. This is a teacher and Options has him by the NADs. Opt is not really looking for "feedback" he is delivering a very IMPORTANT, career saving message.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Opt, can I ask your ages and the ages of your kids? How long have y'all been married?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sure, Me 33, WW 33, kids 5&6. OM 24....
Married 10.5 years

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I was unsuccessful scheduling an appointment today SH. His office closes at 2pm central and I missed them. I will be calling first thing in the a.m.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by options:
<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Opt, can I ask your ages and the ages of your kids? How long have y'all been married?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sure, Me 33, WW 33, kids 5&6. OM 24....
Married 10.5 years

Opt. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">24?? Good grief..

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Tell me about it.............

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by options:
<strong> Tell me about it............. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Can you ask your Mom to ask her P.I. to dig up his parents? Is he married?

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Mel, I stopped at PI office today. The pictures are not good. Actually, they s%&k. They are not worth anything. I didn't see the video footage but apparently it is better. If someone showed me those picures I would laugh at them. They are not worth showing OM. I can ask the PI to dig up his parents. OM is not married.

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Gotcha, Opt.

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Update: WOW!! WW started reading HN/HN last night. I have had it laying on the nightstand for 2 weeks and she finally picked it up last night. I think she only read a few pages but at least it is a start.....WW was very nice this morning too....

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Dang it! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> SH is booked for Wednesday at 2:30pm. I am not having any luck with this....... His assistant is going to see if SH will do a 3:30 appointment which is outside his normal hours. She would not make any promises. I won't know until Monday. I really hope he will do it.

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Again.... WW is reading HN/HN tonight. I about fell over again. This seems to be good...

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Good deal, it is a START!

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Yes it is a start. I am prepared for the Fog to roll back in though. I just got phone bill. WW has called OM a lot in the past month. I set the bill out so WW would see it. She took the call detail and hid it or threw it somewhere....

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by options:
<strong> Yes it is a start. I am prepared for the Fog to roll back in though. I just got phone bill. WW has called OM a lot in the past month. I set the bill out so WW would see it. She took the call detail and hid it or threw it somewhere....

Opt. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Please address this with her. Remind her that she told you she would end contact and ask why that is not happening.

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Do you really think it is good I address it at this point. I don't want to scare her into not having the appointment with SH. I think she would do it out of revenge of some sort. Also, she is reading HN/HN a lot.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by options:
<strong> Do you really think it is good I address it at this point. I don't want to scare her into not having the appointment with SH. I think she would do it out of revenge of some sort. Also, she is reading HN/HN a lot.

opt. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">opt, how would you scare her off by asking her about it? She has come this far because you have confronted her rather than taking a silent stand.

Is she planning on going out this weekend again?

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ok, I will follow your lead and confront her. I will let you know how it goes.

No she is not going out this weekend. As far as I know...

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