I am seriously considering leaving my husband of 15 years, and I need some sort of advice. Here is a quick summary of our story. Married 15 years, best friends but "in-love" feelings started to die about 2-3 years ago, he has an romantic love affair with younger woman for about 6 months, I find out but stay with him, we have 3 children who love him. I felt like our love was dwindling before the A, which probably was the cause, but now I feel all the love has been drained. He took away every last deposit in my love bank, and then some. Since I found out about the affair, he has come back and hasn't had contact with the other woman, as far as I know. I just don't think that I can get passed the pain and humiliation of his falling in love with another woman.
I have seen on here questions about when to call it quits, but I ask again. Should I live with a broken heart forever, and be trapped in a marriage with a man who loves another, or should I leave and spare the few good feelings I have left?

inDenial, welcome to MB. Sorry for your situation. How long has it been since dday and your FWH moving back home? Have you read His Needs Her Needs or Surviving An Affair both books by Harley? Are you in MC? IC? Are you on AD's? Sorry for all the questions but it would help to know where you are in this long, rocky road to recovery. Sending MB hugs to you {{ID}}