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I went into my husband's email account and found an email with the subject line "thank you for registering with wifelovers.com". The site contains pictures of women with an area to post sexual comments about the pictures. They are VERY explicit pictures with VERY explicit comments. I was shocked that my husband would even want to participate in something like this. When I confronted him, he said he didn't know where the email came from, that it was just junk, and that it may have been something he registered for a long-long time ago. He basically denied it altogether and became angry that I was rumaging around in his emails.

On another note, yes, he knew I had his password and didn't mind me checking his email due to a previous incident. Anyway, once I confronted him with the above, he now says he is going to change his password since "obviously me knowing it doesn't help us any."

I am 95% sure he is lying, otherwise why would the registration message come up? There were other "registration" emails for other non-porn things made around the same time, it seems obvious to me that he was registering on several websites. Am I overreacting here?

I really don't like this at all, I feel very hurt. Before we were married he agreed not to engage in internet porn at all and to my knowledge he completely stopped. I haven't seen any other evidence of it until now. We've been married a year now.

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NO, you are not over-reacting. Changing the password should be enough of a red flag to know that there is SOME problem than has to be addressed.


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