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emtpy & lucidity
#1278071 02/17/05 06:05 PM
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Hello,
I have not been here in awhile.
Empty and I are calling it quits after 5 long years of fighting, blaming and complete Kaos.
I have ended up alone and single. Something I thougt would never happend and something I feared my whole life since childhood.
Empty is happy and with someone.
I am not sure where to start now.
Was wondering if I could come here to seek advice and a shoulder to cry on occasionaly.
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#1278072 02/17/05 06:08 PM
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Hi Lucidity,

Sorry to see things did not improve for the M and family. How can we help you?

Hugz,
L.
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#1278073 02/17/05 06:09 PM
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I am sorry the outcome you desired did not occur. I will listen, if you wish to talk. I understand the fear of being alone. I too have some issues that began in childhood. You need a shoulder? I got 2. Hope you find some peace very soon.

Patriot
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#1278074 02/17/05 06:30 PM
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
You are more than welcome to stick around and ask whatever you need.
At least maybe there will be at least some closure for you.
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#1278075 02/17/05 06:40 PM
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good lord. double post

<small>[ February 17, 2005, 05:42 PM: Message edited by: patriot92 ]</small>
Re: emtpy & lucidity
#1278076 02/17/05 06:55 PM
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Shrek's Swamp
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by lucidity:

I have ended up alone and single. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Does this mean that the (in my opinion weird and dangerous) OM is completely out of your life?

This is a cause for celebration, he was bad news.


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Was wondering if I could come here to seek advice and a shoulder to cry on occasionaly.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">absolutely YES !

Cry at will. You are mourning a pretty significant loss.

Pep
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#1278077 02/17/05 06:58 PM
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Lucidity,

I'm sorry you guys weren't able to work it out.

Are the kids still with their Dad?

-AD
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#1278078 02/17/05 11:15 PM
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Hi lucidity:

I 2 welcome you back. Hope things can finally start 2 improve for you.

best,
-ol' 2long

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