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On the 101 thread you asked: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have 2 of his OW phone #'s. They don't know he was married. Should I call them and find out if he and they were physical cause he says they weren't. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Basically, no. Ask an OW if she was physical with your H? Why would you believe the answer - no matter what it was?
Who is "They" in "They don't know he was married."??
If "They" includes her husband, yes, contact him and spill the beans.
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They includes 2 separate women he met online and had physical contact with last spring. In one email to one of them my WH spoke of his desire to have sex with her. In another email to the other woman he point blank asked her if she would just have sex with him. She responded by yes and here's my phone#. He swears to God he didn't. He want's to reconsile. I don't believe him. Would it hurt to ask them? I dont think either one is married.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KidsMom:
<strong>Would it hurt to ask them?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No, it won't hurt - unless you can't stand a "yes" answer. But even with that, why believe ANY answer?
But it won't help, either.
Assume it happened.
He wants to reconcile. Go reconcile and do it right to ensure the opportunity doesn't rise again.
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WAT, he abused her kids. Go read her other post.
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Oh. Thanks, Mel.
Then it doesn't matter anymore about OW. Let either one of them have him.
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