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#1279475 02/20/05 08:16 PM
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David,

It's all pretty &^*!!#% surreal, isn't it?

You are ALREADY the winner in this lousy game...

Hang in there... how's the flu thing going??

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Kicking the flu - no fever left, a little dixxy, not much appetite - but I KICKED THAT FLU. (Had a good doc from MB work me thru it)

It is more surreal than I can imagine. Haven't heard from her for a while, someybe she gave up. At least it wasn't 28 phone calls in a row........

Speaking of surreal - I'm cranking up all my Frank Zappa albums right now -- ----- hee hee.....

Kids are out at the park - have time to myself. May not hear the phone ring anyway.....

David

<small>[ February 20, 2005, 07:22 PM: Message edited by: tanelornpete ]</small>

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Ok, never mind. Just got a F*** Y** tm.......

#1279478 02/20/05 08:25 PM
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David-

What the hell is this?
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I have to explain the irony of the TMs and phone calls - CJ can explain this better than I - she may show up soon (I hope).

My wife is an ESTJ. I am an I/ENFP. There is NO way that an ESTJ can comprehend the idea of 'how are you 'feeling' - she's nutz! I can't comprehend the idea of jumping to a 'J' - just 'feels' wrong......
Make sense? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">What is this??? You are just all over the place today, using my name synonymously with weakness...now you're using all kinds of unapproved abbreviations....this has got to stop David....seriously.

-Caren

#1279479 02/20/05 08:29 PM
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Caren - are you serious? If so - I'd be glad to explain............These are personality types from the Meyers/Briggs personality tests.

Sorry I assumed too much. Check out a website with the Meyer's/Briggs Personality tests - amazing what you can learn about yourself.

On the other hand, my head is available for 2x4's.

David

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm cranking up all my Frank Zappa albums right now </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Zappa?! Turn it up, man, I can't hear it!

Dental floss tycoon...


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok, never mind. Just got a F*** Y** tm.......</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Uhhh... that's a good thing.

I'd say "hang on, the ride's about to start..."

<small>[ February 20, 2005, 07:31 PM: Message edited by: tqt ]</small>

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Caren - I am seriously sorry. Please forgive me. I'll delete that post if you want - you feel like family - I don't want to do anything to cause harm! You mean a great deal to me.....please let me know

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by tqt:
<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm cranking up all my Frank Zappa albums right now </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Zappa?! Turn it up, man, I can't hear it!

Dental floss tycoon...


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok, never mind. Just got a F*** Y** tm.......</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Uhhh... that's a good thing.

I'd say "hang on, the ride's about to start..." </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Actually, it's Joe's Garage.........much more....unacceptable to post here....heh heh

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OK, call over and over, then hung up. On the house phone. No caller ID. Damn

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I'm an ENFP...bordering on an ENTP, depends on the day. I can NEVER imagine jumping to J either. I think that's what bugs me about some posts...LM you a J?

Caren, it's the MeyersBrigss Personality over simplification to explain what our personaliies are like...lets see, it's been awhile, but you can be either

I-introvert
E-extrovert

Next abbrev is

N-iNtuitive
????-(can't remember the next one???)

Next abbrev

F-feeling
T-thinking


Last abbrev

F-feeling
J-judgemental


So, you take this test and it sorts you into four slots...

Tan, you're doing well, she's looking for ANY excuse to test out your contactability...stay strong my man or else the ghost of Jerry will haunt you (or maybe that's not such a bad deal).

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by StillHereMakingIt:
<strong> I'm an ENFP...bordering on an ENTP, depends on the day. I can NEVER imagine jumping to J either. I think that's what bugs me about some posts...LM you a J?

Caren, it's the MeyersBrigss Personality over simplification to explain what our personaliies are like...lets see, it's been awhile, but you can be either

I-introvert
E-extrovert

Next abbrev is

N-iNtuitive
????-(can't remember the next one???)

Next abbrev

F-feeling
T-thinking


Last abbrev

F-feeling
J-judgemental


So, you take this test and it sorts you into four slots...

Tan, you're doing well, she's looking for ANY excuse to test out your contactability...stay strong my man or else the ghost of Jerry will haunt you (or maybe that's not such a bad deal). </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Other quote is "P" - Perception - perceiving in an instant the overall situation, or at least THINKIG you do.....

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by tanelornpete:
OMG that'd freak her out! WHO IS THIS WOMAN?????
Nah - don't think this could be a good idea .</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hmmm, don't be so sure...

#1279487 02/20/05 08:58 PM
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Ummm David...I was still just screwing with you...I didn't understand your abbreviations....therefore I made fun of them rather than admit that I didn't know what they were...I thought maybe it was some sort of secret code, and I've lost my damn decoder ring.

Maybe you took my temporary lapse in posting as me being mad. In reality, I had to go to the grocery store....damn kids, I just fed 'em yesterday.

-Caren

P.S. Stop apologizing David Sheesh...like I'm really going to be mad at you with your WS going psycho on you....And can I get a WHAT WHAT on that [censored] You TM......that's a very good sign.

Can I buy you some groceries? Oh yeah? You don't want my groceries....well F-U and the grocery cart you rode in on.

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I'm going thru G**D****d withdrawals and I don't even want her back! WTF?????? At least my Doc is online.....

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Liar, liar pants on fire.........you do to want her back.....lying to yourself isn't going to help.

I don't know about all that personality mumbo jumbo, but you want her back, and she's flipping out now because you are supposed to WAIT FOR HER!!! Damn you David....can't you get with the program?!! She's gonna move out and find herself and she'll let you know when she's done, and until such time, you should just wait? Okay? Dang....do I have to draw you a picture?

-Caren

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I don't want WS back. Clearer? That's the only person I see anymore.......

Draw a pitcher if ya want - hit me with 2x4s. I don't even care anymore. I'm not waiting for her to date every damned kid half her age to 'find out who she is'.

Heck with that.

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Wifey has decided that after 10 -12 phone calls that she can get on with her plans. Thank GOD it wasn't 28!!!!!!!!

I unplugged the phone....

David

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I don't want WS back. Clearer? That's the only person I see anymore.......

Draw a pitcher if ya want - hit me with 2x4s. I don't even care anymore. I'm not waiting for her to date every damned kid half her age to 'find out who she is'.

Heck with that.


That's fine David. Tell us that, just don't tell her that. Not yet, not until you have all your emotions in check. Vent to us, not her. What you feel right now may change and most likely will change. Let her wonder about what you are feeling.

Keith

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Keith...he means he wants his wife back not his wayward spouse back. None of us want our WS back...yick.

David, I'm gonna stop playing with you now......You realize I've just been playing right?

-Caren

P.S. YES!!!!!!! I am the winner with 28 calls BOOYAH!!! LMAO what did I win?

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Tanelornpete

Just wanted to say I'm with on this. I just caught up on your posts. I haven't been on much this week.Too busy. I did't think you were going to PLB so soon.
Stay strong-Hope your WIFE comes back and looses that BI#$H WW some where along the way.

Jerry

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