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Just a word of advise. If you are the WS don't keep momentos of anything of that time frame. It brings back many triggers and that is not healthy for you. Rid yourself of anything that reminds you of that time, place or that person and you will be a better person for it. You can go on and not look back. Look for momentos of the future with your spouse and make a new box of things that are worth saving and that last a lifetime.
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GW, I can't tell if you are a FS or a FWS from you sig line.
However, I do completely agree from both angles. As a FS there is nothing so disrespectful than to see WW wearing things given to her by Homewrecking OM. Figuring out how to deal with this now. clothes, jewlery, cards, emails, etc. Doing this is so hurtful and disrespectful to the FS.
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sorry for the minor threadjack - but- Tom Joad!! Hello! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Long time no see. Have you seen my BIG NEWS thread??? I lost your e-mail addy. Mine hotmail is crazy - use tara_and_girls@yahoo.com from now on, if you want to catch up.
OK, sorry, now everyone else ignore. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Word of advice as a BS - don't keep a journal either. WS may take it and photocopy it and hand it out to friends for a good laugh............
David (the bitter)
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TP,
I'm fairly certain that no one who read my journal would be laughing. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
Noodle
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by noodle: <strong> TP,
I'm fairly certain that no one who read my journal would be laughing. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
Noodle </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Made me feel raped. I had angry monments, love poems, prayers. I put my whole heart into that. I;ll bet they are laughing too. Feels great.
David
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Anyone who can laugh while I'm cutting off their fingers has earned it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Seriously though..you were raped..all over again.
Vicious, cruel WS. [spits between fingers]
There should be an island for such creatures..let them deal with each other and spare the rest of humanity.
Noodle
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