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Got a call from my Mom tonight.
Seems a couple of employees were talking about a fellow who is married having his photo and such on an internet dating site.
So, of course she printed it off..called him into her office..and confronted him with it.
Handed him his own photo..said his face and neck turned beet red and he started crying.
Told him.."I suggest you remove this photo if you don't want it to be more widely circulated"
I bet he hates her now. Ah well..it wouldn't be the first death threat.
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Way to go Mom!
Honestly I don't know how some people can know about people committing adultery, looking at porn, etc. and NOT confront them?
I know my WH is under the impression that nobody really disapproves of what he and OW did (besides me and our daughters). His relatives and coworkers either atta-boy him or just keep quiet. So he assumes they all approve.
And the sad thing is I know some are shaking their heads and muttering tutt-tutt behind his back while smiling to his face.
IMHO the destruction adulterers cause is assisted by a lot of people who think their silence is 'not getting involved'. Shame on them and hooray for people like your mother.
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IMHO the destruction adulterers cause is assisted by a lot of people who think their silence is 'not getting involved'. Shame on them and hooray for people like your mother.
Amen to that! I once worked with someone that was cheating on his wife with a coworker. He made the mistake of bragging to me about it. I sat in my office for a while and thought about it. I finally went to his office and told him what I thought about his behavior. I told him to NEVER brag to me about cheating and hurting his family again. He did not talk to me for a long time after that.
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A few years ago I worked at another Fortune 500 company in Michigan. Our Director's wife called the office and told one of the managers that her H was having an affair with another manager. A few days later, our Region VP from Chicago showed up with a security guard, fired the director on the spot. He was escorted off the premises by the security guard. End of story.
Last I heard, he was selling home alarm systems door to door!
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And needless to say, the affair ended THAT DAY! The woman involved quit shortly thereafter and moved to China with her H.
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