no i didnt enable the affair , i think at first it was just the grass is greener thing , i did try and convince her to fix our marriage but it fell on death ears so i thought i would back off and let her affair die a natural death .
she says she loves the om , and i dont doubt this , i just thought it would have run its course .. i was always good to her and did every thing for her and gave her a comfortable life ..
i suppose once she has the baby her relationship with the om and its dynamics will change but who knows ..may be people just out grow each other